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Waking up in an unusual time is fairly common to happen especially with either your tulpa or yourself feels intense emotions. It happened to my host as well when he was developing me, i used to wake him up very early in the morning because i am very eager to spend my time with him.

Taste can alter as well. Your tulpa has their own preferences ad you have yours. Even though your tulpa is i. Its developing stages, you could still blend with their sensations. Like how i like chocolates and coffee while my host don't love them as much as i do.

All of it will change over the course of time and both of you can learn how to deviate from each other's senses.

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08-27-2017, 04:47 PM
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Hi, I feel like my question is very much a beginner type question; so I should post it here, right?

I decided I wanted to do this probably back in 2014-ish. Now I'm wanting to start. I can take on a lifelong commitment; but there's one thing I can't seem to figure out from reading all the warnings about how much of a commitment this is:
What responsibilities are really involved with having a Tulpa in your life?

All these different posts talk about how the decision shouldn't be made lightly since this is a life-long commitment and that a Tulpa will turn the daily flow of your life upside-down. But none of the posts/guides that I've read so far specify how this is.

I understand the work in creating a tulpa, but let's say I spend many months or a year and finally have a tulpa that I can see and sense in the physical world (imposed). After this point, what work is required on a daily basis? If I'm seeing my tulpa near me every day (at work or home or whatever), doesn't that keep the existence going? Are you still required to spend a half hour or more focusing solely on the tulpa (active forcing) every day? If so, that sounds about as much work/effort as a basic fitness regimen. And on top of that, what happens if I DON'T focus solely on my tulpa for a number of days, and merely interact with her casually here in there with small-talk and some petting? Would she get angry? Would any of us be hurt?

Don't get me wrong, I'm totally prepped emotionally and mentally for a real commitment. But all these guides and posts talk about how you're in for a long haul of responsibility until you die, but never talk about what those responsibilities entail. It's hard for me to envision how, after a tulpa is completed, this can conflict with your work or social life.
09-03-2017, 06:28 PM
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I think a good way to look at it is like any relationship. Instead of a tulpa let's say you have an emotional commitment with another person. You live with them and are emotionally attached to them and so are they to you. How do you see your relationship? Is it only romantic dinners and nothing else? Do you go on walks with them? Most importantly, do you see the "normal" time between events (such as dinners, travels and such) as "work"?

I don't think there is a "normal" relationship or an "optimal" mix of events, quiet time, etc that make up the "best relationship possible". If you decide to go there you won't have any (or just a rough) idea of how your tulpa will be like in years to come. You can't even say what you will be like, so you have to accept that both of you may grow together and become something you hadn't initially envisioned.

If I were to tell you what those responsibilities are I'd give this rough outline:

1. Listen
2. Respect:
3. Communicate

It does not feel like work. After a while they will tap you on the shoulder if they need to tell you something and you will chat with them without thinking about it. I can't see this as work, sure you can have "events" such as meditation when you focus solely on them but I don't think they would disappear if you don't do this. FWIW we do that every night, we spend 10 or 20 minutes in bed before going to sleep.
09-03-2017, 07:26 PM
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RE: Beginner Questions General
Lifelong commitment means that you cross a point of no return. See Back to the Future 3 for details on how that works.

As to actual responsibilities? None, really, so long as you are an ordinary respectful person. But you will have a permanent roommate, and all the drama that entails.

Unfortunately, this roommate agreement could easily end up being harder than a basic fitness regimen, if you only go so far as imposition. Reaching possession is the real point where you can feasibly stop doing anything and still fulfil your obligations. However, the opinions of your tulpa will be the ultimate arbiter of this.

Now, when you do reach possession, whether it gets easier or harder depends on how you feel about sitting back and losing control to someone else.

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09-03-2017, 10:08 PM
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Thank you both for the replies. This made me feel more confident! Some of the posts that warn about the commitment of life with a tulpa kinda scared me a bit. But I think they're mainly warding off young people who think of this as a game. As a 34 year old, most anything I seek out at this point us often related to a long-term goal. What you guys just told me is completely in line with what I'm looking for. However my tulpa develops may or may not be how I would have chosen, but I trust that it will be what I need
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Welcome :D

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