How to have lucid dreams: https://community.tulpa.info/thread-the-...#pid170800
Controlling lucid dreams: First and foremost you need to focus on dream stabilization. Engage your senses; feel your body, the ground, anything around you. Pay attention to details (this tends to actually create said details), and of course reality check to affirm you're dreaming. Controlling lucid dreams is all about belief. In the one main lucid dream I've had, immediately after becoming lucid I believed there would be a door to my wonderland behind me, and when I turned around there was. Just a standalone door not connected to any building. Similarly, believing your tulpa will be in a specific area (not materializing in front of you, but say, around a corner) is a good way to meet them. Having a place you'd naturally expect to meet them can help a lot. That's the primary reason we created a wonderland, to have a center of activity and familiarity in lucid dreaming. Since I got to see Reisen and Tewi on a couch in our living room right before waking up with barely any intent on my part, I can confirm it works. Trying to make your tulpa appear right in front of you in the middle of nowhere/a real life scenario is a lot harder to "believe". But if you get a lot of practice, you can do whatever you want. For example, learning to fly in lucid dreams basically entails becoming comfortable with the fact that you can. If you're not sure, you'll be shaky or just outright unable.