Laxeg September 12, 2013 Share September 12, 2013 Hey guys, before I ask my questions I'll quickly tell you the back story. It's been almost 5 months since I began my tulpa, Frala, and in the begining I was forcing for about 1h30/2h daily. But then some weeks later things happened and I couldn't force as much as before, sometimes I couldn't at all. Now I'm good and can begin forcing again. But here's the problem : I can't feel her anymore (it's already been 4 days). I don't want to start another tulpa because I promised her that I'll never abandon her. So here are my questions : - How can I feel her again ? And if I can't : - How do I "reset" her ? Is "reseting" similar to abandoning or starting another tulpa ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shui September 12, 2013 Share September 12, 2013 It's not something I've personally had experience with, but I've heard that writing her letters could help. You do know that a tulpa you've dismissed can be bought back by sending a letter to her, don't you? The main references I have to it are from TheOtherTulpa and Amir. They also mention it here. CreativeMind also talks about it a bit (in a different context) in her guide. Sorry I can't find more information. "'Real isn't how you are made,' said the Skin Horse. 'It's a thing that happens to you.'" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xantan September 12, 2013 Share September 12, 2013 I think you're just freaking out a little and the stress is making it difficult to find her. In my opinion, after 5 months it'll take more than 4 days to "lose" her. Try to relax and sink yourself into your wonderland, your visualization skills probably just need a little practice. You should also try talking to her without trying to figure out where she is, even if you don't get a response the first time. I'm not sure what she's like, or what kind of understanding you have, but she could also be upset with you. She's a person and even though you two made a promise, she might still be a little scared, or maybe a little angry. Try to talk to her about it, and remind her that you're not quitting. If she's sad hug her, if she's angry apologize. After you should talk to her about why she felt the way she did, and what you can do to help her if you two ever get to a point where life is too busy for regular forcing. "The way is in training." - Miyamoto Musashi Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laxeg September 14, 2013 Author Share September 14, 2013 Thank you both for your answers. :) I freaked out a bit but now I calmed myself, I'll try to force like we used to and apologize to her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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