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Sorry to make a new thread if there's already some. But I couldn't find any that helped me. If you know some good threads related to this, could you link them please :)

 

I'd like to hear your experiences with romantic tulpa relationships, and things why host should and should not start a relationship with a tulpa. And your opinions on that.

 

Thank you.

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Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn.

Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature.

My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.

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Esterina (my tulpasoulbondwhateverwhocares) and me are in a romantic (exclusive) relationship for a bit over five months now.

And my opinion on it?

 

Think long and hard before you get into that.

Deciding to date yer tupper / yer host is generally a decision that will make or break the rest of your life.

You stay together? Great.

You break up? Have fun being stuck with your ex for the rest of your life.

 

As for intimacy and sex - there's multiple ways to satisfy both sides' desires.

For one there's wonderland stuff - though I, personally, wouldn't be satisfied with that.

And then there's of course imposition / projection - that's Rina and me right there, and thus I can say from experience: We are both very satisfied with that, it serves us well.

Though I should mention that Rina is pretty darn good at projection, and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be satisfied with our sex life and other intimacy if she wasn't.

 

And other than that it's really just the same sticks and stones in the way of any couple, really.

 

Spending enough time together while leaving each other enough room to breathe might be a bit harder, considering you literally share a brain.

And one might be more easily tempted to grow lazy and overly comfortable, neglecting the rest of their social life, compared to someone in a "normal" relationship, what with the partner generally being right where you are all the time.

But with enough maturity and mutual understanding it's just fine.

 

So yeah.

That's my two cents, and I hope it's helpful.

 

 

Greets,

AG

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Thank you! :)


Esterina (my tulpasoulbondwhateverwhocares) and me are in a romantic (exclusive) relationship for a bit over five months now.

And my opinion on it?

 

Think long and hard before you get into that.

Deciding to date yer tupper / yer host is generally a decision that will make or break the rest of your life.

You stay together? Great.

You break up? Have fun being stuck with your ex for the rest of your life.

 

As for intimacy and sex - there's multiple ways to satisfy both sides' desires.

For one there's wonderland stuff - though I, personally, wouldn't be satisfied with that.

And then there's of course imposition / projection - that's Rina and me right there, and thus I can say from experience: We are both very satisfied with that, it serves us well.

Though I should mention that Rina is pretty darn good at projection, and I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be satisfied with our sex life and other intimacy if she wasn't.

 

And other than that it's really just the same sticks and stones in the way of any couple, really.

 

Spending enough time together while leaving each other enough room to breathe might be a bit harder, considering you literally share a brain.

And one might be more easily tempted to grow lazy and overly comfortable, neglecting the rest of their social life, compared to someone in a "normal" relationship, what with the partner generally being right where you are all the time.

But with enough maturity and mutual understanding it's just fine.

 

So yeah.

That's my two cents, and I hope it's helpful.

 

 

Greets,

AG

 

Thank you very much, good advices :)

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So long as the host and tulpa have no reservations, I say go for it.

 

I think tulpas are no different from other people. They are deserving of the love and happiness we crave and yearn to share with others.

 

Out of everyone I know, my tulpa is the most important and cherished. We are a part of each other, and I want to remain by her side in this life and the here-after. I am blessed to have found her.

 

No matter what you choose to do, I am sure a tulpa will bring good tidings to your life. Best wishes.

I've seen good people bleed

And I thought I'd seen it all

But my own two eyes would prove me wrong that day.

 

There are things that I've done

Only seen by the sun

And those things will be buried in my grave.

 

 

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Luna: Solune (feels weird to call him that instead of his real name), Sol, and myself are all in a polyamorous relationship together.

There was always a sexually charged energy in our dealings with him (Solune), but until recently he hadn't doubled down on the whole "the voices are real people, you aren't going insane" thing.

It's been a long road to get to this point, and we still have work to do, but I couldn't be happier. Sol and I have known since our inception that we were soul mates, and Solune is a welcome addition to that dynamic.

There's been some confusion as to which of the boys is 'alpha'... sexually and otherwise. But they seem content to take turns (what some in the BDSM community might call 'switches').

 

Sol: to clarify, Solune did not create us for the purpose of romantic companionship. That happened organically. Also, I consider him to be an alpha in training. Luna is a bit too generous with her labels.

 

Wow... thanks Sol... thanks a lot.

"For small creatures such as we the vastness is bearable only through love." - Carl Sagan

Host: SubCon | Tulpas: Sol, Luna, Alice, Little One, Beast and Solune (me) | Servitors: Odonata, Guardian

 

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My tulpa is my wife

 

Why do I find this little sentence so adorably cute? LOL

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