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Default Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

I have recently finished imposing my first tulpa, an earth pony. She has started a behavior that I know not the roots of: a demand for sex. Every time before we go to bed, she begs me to "just give it a try." I don't want this relationship with her- I have always been against the idea of imaginary sex. I didn't even give her an anus or vagina! Let me explain why I don't want to do my tulpa:
- She is a pony, and I do not find this sexually attractive.
- I want our love to remain pure, and I am afraid that if we start a sexual relationship, she might become addicted to the sexual energy and love me only for that.
- She doesn't have anywhere for me to put my thing in.
I've tried explaining to her that sex isn't the ultimate expression of love, but she doesn't buy it (probably because I think it is). How can I convince her that we don't have to do this? And, if I can't convince her, how can I change her form so I can appease her? If the choice is either killing her or doing her, I'd choose the latter.

Lastly, there has been another development in my tulpa since imposition. She wants to have babies with me. I think this is another way for her to show me her unconditional love, but I'm still like "wut" every time she brings it up. Can a tulpa and host even have a baby? Would me doing her make her pregnant?! If this is so, then sex is WAY out of the question. I'm not ready to be a father!
Anyways, while I probably won't do this, how do I impregnate my tulpa? Will I have to wear a condom for sex in order to not risk pregnancy?

Thanks for your help,
Derp Star

UPDATE: Well, I decided to just go ahead and fuck her. Why? She has done so much for me already- from everything to helping with homework to preventing me from killing myself- that the least I could do was give her this one request. And boy, was it worth it! I didn't realize imaginary sex could be so... Real! Anyways, we are both really happy now, and open to doing this more often. She dropped the whole baby thing too. I told her that later we could force another tulpa together if she wants to.
(This post was last modified: 05-25-2013 07:41 PM by Derp Star.)
05-20-2013 08:29 PM
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Default RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

I can't say much on the sex part except that if you are going to do it she can change form if she wants to.

About the pregnancy part you have to remember that it's just in your mind, her getting pregnant would just be symbolism, if, for example, you both would believe that her eating chocolate would make her pregnant then it would. There is no need to use imaginary condoms.
(On a side note, I think it would also be possible for her to just become pregnant because she want to since she's not bound to follow the rules of biology)

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05-20-2013 08:37 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

A lot of that shit, it's just your mind, man. It's all in your mind. It's imagination, symbolism, whatever. Everything. Think it up, believe, poof, it happens. There's nothing that's certain about this shit, there's no rules about what you have to do to be able to think up something.

However, no one has the right to force anyone into sex or having babies. That's wrong and outright immoral. That's not love, that's the exact opposite of love. That's abusing, manipulating and using, all that jazz. Fucking sick mate, yo. It won't be a healthy relationship if you give into that, you would be living and "loving" an abuser like those beaten housewives. Like some Stockholm syndrome shit. And if someone forces you into that, you get out. It won't be healthy and it won't be love, your tupper's a fucking psycho.

This is a relationship problem these forums can't really handle, only one who can make a difference is you. What your tupper is asking is wrong and you're pretty strange for even thinking of doing something you don't want to do, if you are telling us the truth. Do yourself a favor and figure out what you really want and why the tupper wants, talk it out and see where it's going. Whatever it is, the answer won't be do something you don't want to do because the other one forces you into it.

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05-20-2013 09:15 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

Some tulpas want sex badly, others don't. Neither case necessarily means you're forcing them to want or not want it. Sure, it's possible to parrot their desires either way when they're young, but if you're paying close attention you can feel the difference.

However, if her mind isn't very fully formed yet (which seems to be characterized by her seeming groggy a lot of the time or not thinking clearly), I would say treat her a bit more like a child -- not yet really "there" enough mentally to give consent, make an informed decision, etc.

Whether to have sex should obviously be a decision made by both parties. If she wants it but you don't, you can say no and if she is reasonable she will respect your choice. (Though like any person who wants it, it might not stop her from continuing to try to change your mind.) Similarly if you do and she says no, you should obviously respect her choice.

One choice that may be helpful if she wants sex but you don't is masturbation. This can be done by normal means, or by making a realistic but non-sentient mind-doll/servitor that just lies there unless either you or her puppet it. Think realdoll, but better.

Tulpa pregnancy works, but one of you still has to force the baby tulpa in some way in order to create sentience. Some tulpas want to go for pregnancy, but there are other ways of creating a child tulpa that are less painful. Working with your existing tulpa to create another tulpa together by normal forcing can be a really sweet thing to do together.

Note though that tulpa pregnancy will only occur if you believe or fear it will. If you want to go at it but you're worried about this, force up some birth control pills or something.

As for convincing her that sex isn't the ultimate expression of love, start by convincing yourself. Smile

Tell her she can deviate her own form however she likes, regardless of whether it's a small change or a large one. This works even after imposition is complete. One early member here (Jake) had a fully imposed Vinyl Scratch who deviated into an anthro pony, and I've heard of some ponies deviating into normal humans.

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05-20-2013 09:58 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

Kid, you've got something special.

I don't pretend to know shit about having a tulpa as a girlfriend. Still, I always come to think that having sex with an imaginary being can be a real issue. I think you will agree, won't you ? Because that's precisely the kind of issue you're facing.
In a human-to-human love relationship, asexuals excepted, there is always some point where both come to have sex with each other. If they don't, maybe there's not been enough time.

Whatever, your tulpa seems to have her idea on the question. Telling her you will never ever want to mate with her might make her sad, depressed. I said might. I don't know her and her general behaviour. But if you tell her you are simply not ready for that, if she truly loves you, I think she will wait and, if you make it clear enough, she won't bother you with this until you decide to talk about it.

Now, if she's reading this, that's the kind of solution I would apply with a human being, I don't pretend to hold the holy truth. This is some really special relationship, because it's mainly about minds, minds that understand each other better than you will ever understand anyone. I don't think you really need sex to show love to each other.

Anyways, you find yourself in a situation rather uncomfortable and you did well coming here to ask about it. Good luck to both of you.
05-20-2013 10:00 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

I would recommend just talking to her about why she wants to have sex, if you don't want that kind of relationship with her then you two need to reach some kind of an agreement. If she still doesn't listen to you, you could try turning her form into something you do find sexually attractive, though I would save this as a last resort.

As for tulpa pregnancy, it is indeed possible for a tulpa to get pregnant, but since it's symbolic she will only get pregnant if you think she will. It's also possible to raise the child as a tulpa, I even wrote a guide on tulpa pregnancy and put it in my progress report.

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05-20-2013 10:01 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

Dont allow your tulpa to end up making you do something you would not usually do.. she should be understanding and if she isnt, all the more reason not to be doing it and allowing her to act like something akin to a succubus.

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05-21-2013 02:16 AM
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Pretty much everything everyone stated is something you should consider.


Based on how I would talk to other people's tulpae, I realized that the ones that are just starting out and getting their own persona developed, Sex usually is the easiest way to form a bond with the host, however, there has to be communication just like any relationship (friendship, intimate lover, etc).

It depends on how you think Sex really is; some people view it as the ultimate form of showing someone you love them (presuming you had a platonic relationship and then gradual sexual thoughts for them). And in your tulpa's perspective, especially if she has more ease accessing your subconscious, she just wants to connect to you because she may have a strong prospective memory of the bond for you and her. Maybe it could be an aspect of your mind that you want, but you never wanted to consciously acknowledge, it could be all sorts of things. And especially since she wants babies, it's probably just another way of them wanting solidify some bond with you. Just remember there are other and practical ways for your tulpa to solidify a bond than only through sex and pregnancy.




And since this is really all in your mind, it could be several things related to how you view sex, and how you embrace your sexuality. All responses are purely speculation, since everyone is different, but I'd say that when you go on a forum where the general community promotes building a progressive and strong bond with your tulpa, your tulpa that you created want to be able to satisfy you, and usually go a blind eye in doing so. But just remember that it's in your head. The more you show confidence in talking to your tulpa about how you feel about these things, the better they'll quickly realize to think about their actions first.


Tulpa usually start out child-like in some way, and they'll have the same naiveté as you did (most likely), and they start exaggerating and manipulating how they see the world and even you. They may start becoming indulged in their starring roles in their stage of reality, and usually don't consider being thoughtful of others. But when they start realizing things don't revolve around them, that people have ideas and schema are different that they have to be willing to keep an open-mind about, that's the first step of them maturing/becoming an adult (at least mentally if you wanted to keep them in a child-like or teenage form).

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05-21-2013 09:48 PM
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>"Finished Imposition"
I refuse to believe there's such a thing as "finishing" something like imposition but I digress.

If she wants sex, do one of two things.

A) Give it to her. Try a different form, or hell keep the same one but even tulpalamas have sexual needs that may or may not need to be attended to.

... or B) Find an alternate outlet, which could be through an activity that they enjoy, or even self pleasure.

As for babies, you can give her one, but it doesn't necessarily have to be through sex and to be honest, I'd prefer it be through something besides pregnancy. It's perfectly fine and hell even natural for a tulpa to desire a baby, but pregnancy isn't the way to go about it. The way I see it, pregnancy in the tulpa world is like a way to get a tulpa without really putting time into it. An "insta"tulpa if you will which I think is the lazy man's tulpa... if she wants a baby to nurture, allow her to have one, or make one for her to have. Think of them as colaberation tulpa.

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05-22-2013 01:48 PM
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RE: Tulpa is demanding sex and babies!

UPDATE: Well, I decided to just go ahead and fuck her. Why? She has done so much for me already- from everything to helping with homework to preventing me from killing myself- that the least I could do was give her this one request. And boy, was it worth it! I didn't realize imaginary sex could be so... Real! Anyways, we are both really happy now, and open to doing this more often. She dropped the whole baby thing too. I told her that later we could force another tulpa together if she wants to. In any case, we thank y'all for helping!
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05-25-2013 07:39 PM
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