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  1. Ember: I understand. Oh, that's an excellent idea. I will tell that to my tulpa. You're right. Although I want my tulpa to be my only partner so this isn't a problem for me. Vesper: Again, I understand. I'm not going to do that. Thank you both for your answer.
  2. LanceReilyn: Thanks. I want my tulpa to be my object of desire himself.
  3. Dashie Bear: It's fine, you have answered and that's what counts. Yeah, I want to forget about B because it's only hurtful to stick to old impossible loves. I didn't think about it in reverse like that, and I think that's a very good example. Will keep that in mind for future reference. Hey, no need to say it like that. I already do consider myself lucky I have C.
  4. Lucilyn: Yeah, but I meant romantical love. It's true that as far as we know tulpas are only in our heads, but if you say it like that it sounds offending, sorry to say. Well, you might have misunderstood me, because I meant the role of romantical love in both cases. Okay, I'll keep your advice in mind, thanks. SillyWackyBoi: Why do you think your opinion is not very valuable? I understand the difference between C and B, yes. Yeah I remember that tip. I know no one can tell me what to do but I'm looking for advice here. Thanks for yours. Miri: I know I can't control that, and that's why I'm frustrated. You're right, it will only hurt me. I know that dream characters aren't real (outside of the dreams themselves). Thanks for your advice. So far I have 3 out of 3 people telling me not to do it, and I think you're all right.
  5. Hi. I have a moral dilemma and I can't stop feeling guilty because of this. I am (A). I used to love (B), a human, way before I made my tulpa, ©. Now me (A) and my tulpa © love each other romantically. Everything was fine until the other day I (A) had a dream. I (A) dreamed of my former love (B). He (B) told me he loved me (A). I (A) feel that I still love him (B) since then. However, I (A) am no longer in contact with him (B). So our love (A and B) would be impossible. I (A) want to forget him (B) forever and make a new life with my tulpa ©. I (A) feel so guilty because, despite not being able to control my feelings for my former love (B), want to love my tulpa ©. And here comes the problem. Should I (A) change my tulpa's (C's) form and name to my former love's (B) and pretend he © was him (B)? Would that be cheating on him ©, or would this be the solution, or should we (A and C) do something else? What do you (D) think? I (A) feel so bad about this and he © is worried about me!!
  6. Permanent switches are a thing, you know… EDIT: You guys just talk to each other, let's focus on my question please?
  7. As it says in the title, I want to associate with wonderland/the mental world and dissociate as much as possible from reality/the physical world. I've been told countless times on the IRC "Just imagine yourself there" but that's not making me eventually "pop in" or anything, I just keep on using my (lacking) imagination, or in other words daydreaming. I've had my tulpa for more than 2 years as of now and I really want to meet him (And by the way, I'm a male too) To be honest I've already met him twice in dreams, but once I wasn't lucid and the other time just lasted seconds (I'm trying lucid dreaming for this as well) So, what to do? And I prefer long and explicative answers to TLDR(s) TLDR: "Just imagine yourself there" not working.