sorry i didnt mean for the question to be vague. It's just hard for me to understand. I think they like me back. Ive never talked to their host before only them. I would like to get to know their host because ive gotten to know them quite well. I would love to take them on a date and they said they would like that as well.. I think theyre worried that if im friends with their host she will start butting into our conversations because shes done that with others? I am sorry if I am still being vague.