danielle.roberts5

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  1. I don't why I'm going to tell you this (it probably has something to do with none of you actually knowing me) but I've very recently been through a state of depression where I would be crying for no particular reason and I would be physically and verbally abusing myself. My friends were really worried about me and one of my best friends introduced me to tulpae to take my mind off of things. She explained how if I put in enough dedication that it would help me mentally. I'm lucky because my friends are really understanding and when I told a few about Alex they said that they were happy that It'd taken my mind off of hurting myself. I told my other best friend and she said that she was happy that I'd found someone that I could "spill my guts to" (not literally mind you '-') and would completely and utterly understand.

    I was lucky. No, I am lucky.

    Explain to your friends how it helps you mentally and how much it can change your perspective of life. They're amazing. And I'm proud of everyone who is putting dedication and love into your tulpae.


  2. I think it's completely appropriate. You can't be with your tulpa 24/7 ( it's completely unhealthy; you'd be tired all the time and so over worked especially those of us with school or uni/tafe/college) so they may get lonely sometimes (though don't blame yourself for that). If they want another friend around I don't see the problem but like Semi-Nomadic said, you have to inform your tulpa that they are is responsible for their tulpa's well being.


  3. Everyone's journey is different. I've been researching for two months and started with Alex today three weeks ago and Alex is just standing there staring. I know someone who made a fully sentient tulpa in a week and a half.

    A thing I'm doing now is puppeting with my tulpa and visualizing her along side me when I'm going places. It helps alot with visualizing my wonderland as well.


  4. Haha. No. My friend's dad is a police investigator and he does the sketches and my aunt paints so all I had to do was explain what I wanted her to look like. :)

    Another lady also bought the painting for a clothing store.


    Damn, I wish I could draw though...


  5. I have a normal home and a holiday home so when I'm not at home I'll use it as my wonderland. When I'm at home I'll use my holiday home as my wonderland and sometimes I'll even use school.

    On a short note, I just use a place that I'm familiar with, but that I'm not at. I find that if I use my home as my wonderland whilst I'm at home, It's terribly hard to concentrate because of other people being there.

    I don't know if that helps, it's just easiest to visualize fo me.


  6. I decided that it was a concentration issue and started forcing one session of normal visualization and one session of this http://pastebin.com/Vc1UtgXi every day. Not sure how it's working yet, il post again in a few days.

    Just checked out the website and the idea is really good. When you do this, another thing that you can do is each time the number changes, the colour or pattern of the number changes as well. Just an idea to stop it from getting too boring. :)


  7. I have a normal home and a holiday home so when I'm not at home I'll use it as my wonderland. When I'm at home I'll use my holiday home as my wonderland and sometimes I'll even use school.

    On a short note, I just use a place that I'm familiar with, but that I'm not at. I find that if I use my home as my wonderland whilst I'm at home, It's terribly hard to concentrate because of other people being there.

    But that's just what I found easiest to visualize.


  8. I'm sorta new to tulpa forcing but my friend told me all about it. She said that to help with the visualizations, use a reference picture and I did. The only problem is, when I tried to change the hair style a bit, my tulpa completely changed form into someone I know and I've been tld not to visualize someone I know because my tulpa will have personality issues.

    I tried going back to my tulpa's original reference photo but it's hard. It's like my mind can't choose which form.

    Another thing is, I'm not sure if I want my tupla to be humanoid or not anymore. I guess I've really gotta make up my mind.