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#1
I'm wondering if anyone is in a D/s relationship with their tulpa with their tulpa being the dominant one over you?  and if so do you create things that way or is that something which just happened?

I had an experience yesterday which is making me ask this.
Jesse (human male) DOB 16th April 2013
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#2
Between the two of us, Cat is the dominant one. However, I think I'm a more recessive person in general despite my stubbornness.

I guess it was intended for Cat to be dominant? From the start she assumed she had full control, over time that shifted.

I'm curious what your experience was.
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I'm assuming you mean Dominant and submissive in the BDSM sense more than the overall personality sense. My ex-wife and I were practitioners of the lifestyle for years -- both switches. But I was really only into it because of her. I had never had more than a sociological interest previously and after some of what I went through with my ex, I would probably avoid that kind of relationship in the future.

As the PC in a single player roleplaying game, Vesper had to be competent, resourceful and occasionally commanding, whether she wanted to be or not. The plot depended on her actions, even when it didn't make sense for her to be involved. So she emerged into this world opinionated and stubborn -- stubbornly vanilla, but with a very dominant personality.

We've been romantic partners for just over a year. She likes to be held, cherished, not take the lead in bed, and other "vanilla submissive" type things, but struggles to not order me around in ordinary life. If something she says sounds too much like an order and she feels my discomfort, she'll add "#suggestion" or "#request".

Iris is, in her own words, "pristinely asexual", so the matter never comes up. But her original game had other players, and most of her later life she's been an NPC, so she is more accustomed to collaborating instead of being the boss.

Neither was created with the idea that they would ever interact with me, so our relationships emerged organically from who each of us is, without advance planning.

(10-03-2019, 12:26 PM)Ranger Wrote: I'm curious what your experience was.

I was about to say the same, but it's in tania's PR.
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(10-03-2019, 03:44 PM)Ember.Vesper Wrote: I'm assuming you mean Dominant and submissive in the BDSM sense more than the overall personality sense. My ex-wife and I were practitioners of the lifestyle for years -- both switches. But I was really only into it because of her. I had never had more than a sociological interest previously and after some of what I went through with my ex, I would probably avoid that kind of relationship in the future.


Yeah in the BDSM sense rather than simply just the normal personality stuff.

  I don't date switches.. the guy in real life I see was supposed to be a Dom but it turned out he was switchy though he still call's himself a Dominant (which he is but only in play). I should of listened to others in the scene who warned me that he was more of a switch so probably not suitable for me before we got together.. .   so I've lost relationship interest and my lost my sexual interest in him too due to him due to him not being a true Dom.  So I guess I should not be surprised that my subconsciousness obviously has made Jesse a Dom, it just never occurred to me it would do that specially since I considered it and choose not to make him like that.

I'm so very curious now how this is going to affect my whole relationship with my tulpa seeing this is not just about the bedroom but all the life stuff.  I have no idea how much Jesse is going to take up that control and get me to submit to it esp how deep I was in that in the past... in total control relationships (I've been in relationships where I need to get permission to leave a room, get a drink, eat and what to eat, go to the loo, see a friend or do anything at all.. total slave relationships, a couple of which I had to be rescued out from by other Doms when they went bad... with that mindset I can not leave these kinds of relationships on my own accord without the permission or near kidnapped out from them). 

 I'm not scared about it (Jesse is made right) but just now wondering what I've got myself into.  I've never heard of BDSM tulpa relationships and there looks like there is a possibly ours may go that way.
Jesse (human male) DOB 16th April 2013
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#5
As many mentions of BDSM as there have been on the forum the past seven years, there are very few mentions of actual in-system D/s relationships. The greatest concentration of such relationships appears to be in a Reddit discussion:

Intra-system D/s relationships? NSFW

Though the discussion mainly establishes that, yes, some tulpas are dominants for their hosts.

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(10-04-2019, 08:41 AM)Ember.Vesper Wrote: As many mentions of BDSM as there have been on the forum the past seven years, there are very few mentions of actual in-system D/s relationships. The greatest concentration of such relationships appears to be in a Reddit discussion:

Intra-system D/s relationships? NSFW

Though the discussion mainly establishes that, yes, some tulpas are dominants for their hosts.

-Ember

ah thanks. I'll check that link out
Jesse (human male) DOB 16th April 2013
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