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[Forcing] tulpa has gone silent??
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tulpa has gone silent??

Hi, fellow strangers. I'm not sure how many people are exactly going to see this forum post... although I've only just created an account on here for the first time, I've lost count of how many times I've looked at different forums on this site. I'm sure there's some sort of forum already created where someone is asking why their tulpa has suddenly gone quiet but since I couldn't find anything at the moment and I'm new to this place, I just wanted to go ahead and ask and see what people say to me in particular.
I've been forcing for a little over a month now. I know it's still early so I shouldn't begin to feel as hopeless as I do but because I've been so dedicated on taking time to comfortably talk to my tulpa, visualize his appearance and the wonderland he'll be residing in and everything and even try and narrate for him, I am getting nervous because in the past week I feel I'm not making any progress whatsoever. It seemed like he was developing pretty quickly... I started to have lots of dreams, I could even hear his voice responding back to me when I would ask him questions or just talk about my day and I felt like we were communicating wonderfully. This gave me hope, but that hope started to dwindle when I saw him in my dreams less and less. I know I probably shouldn't be dependent on the dreams entirely but I don't know what it is... I just feel like I'm getting absolutely nowhere. Plus, visualizing has been getting really hard as well. I'm becoming really desperate.
I think it all has to do with how highly stressed I am at this point in my life but is there anything I can do at all? Or do I have to sit this whole thing out and be patient?
I guess I just need someone else's insight...
(This post was last modified: 04-17-2017, 04:03 AM by nammiebearxx.)
04-17-2017, 04:02 AM
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RE: tulpa has gone silent??

That is correct. Stress is causing the problems. Though, success with dreams goes in and out. It really depends on how much you focus on dreams at the moment, you can't hold onto it.

With tulpas it's a little different, like riding a bicycle. Your collected skill stays with you. It can easily get buried under stress and distraction so you can't see it.

The effort with forcing is one of the things you can fix with mindset. Forcing is not naturally effortful, but it can feel effortful when frustration builds and you feel you need to push harder. But largely, the reality is the opposite. You need to fall into a trance. You need to push less and less.

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04-17-2017, 04:27 AM
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RE: tulpa has gone silent??

(04-17-2017, 04:27 AM)tulpa001 Wrote: That is correct. Stress is causing the problems. Though, success with dreams goes in and out. It really depends on how much you focus on dreams at the moment, you can't hold onto it.

With tulpas it's a little different, like riding a bicycle. Your collected skill stays with you. It can easily get buried under stress and distraction so you can't see it.

The effort with forcing is one of the things you can fix with mindset. Forcing is not naturally effortful, but it can feel effortful when frustration builds and you feel you need to push harder. But largely, the reality is the opposite. You need to fall into a trance. You need to push less and less.

Thank you so much for your comment! Since I'm still new to this whole thing - with the tulpa community, I really appreciate it!
04-17-2017, 05:42 AM
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RE: tulpa has gone silent??

You are welcome!

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