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Not sure if I am really looking for advice here so much as just venting. I am really frustrated because I don't seem to have enough time to spend tulpaforcing. This may not be typical of someone trying to make a tulpa, but I have too many friends and nobody leaves me alone! Everybody seems to need or want me for something. I find it hard to sit down and tulpaforce this past week and because so much is going on I find it hard to calm my mind and focus when I do get a little time.

 

I am really scared of losing my tulpa. I have already gotten what I am assuming is the emotional response (the feeling of emotions when talking to her) and afraid my spending little time with her will make her fade away. I do try to narrate at random times through out the day in hopes of that helping.

 

I'm just really worried about losing her....

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You can't just tell everyone to shut up and let you have an hour to yourself?

I dunno, I hate people so I have little friends for a reason. I just bearly like my one friend. I don't really know why I'm the only person who lives a little more logically than most but it's not like I care in the first place if people like being stupid.

This hot empty painting should be locked and towed.

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I try to. But it only works to an extent, then some people seem to get mad or upset that I am not talking to them or spending time with them. Its annoying. And if I ignore my phone too much people freak out. (Which is why I FUCKING HATE THE INVENTION OF CELL PHONES!)

 

And people always come to me with their problems. I've always tried to be a good friend I guess so I have a bad habit of not turning people away.

 

Also, I know I should be tulpaforcing now. But my mind won't calm down! Its driving me crazy. Plus my phone is still blowing up with texts... AAARRRGGG!!! Sorry for the pointless ranting....

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Force in the shower. Every little bit helps. Narrating is a good thing to do -- wake up and tell her good morning, and then tell her goodnight at night. Say random things in the day. It works. As long as you don't completely forget her, you should be fine... Just work when you can. It'll take you longer than most people, I suppose, but if she's worth it to you, than go for it.

Tulpa: Xaine

Form: Humanoid Male

But Tulpa are sentient, whereas your right hand...isn't.

 

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Turn off your phone for an hour or two to tulpaforce. If people get upset, explain that you need some alone time occasionally. If they still feel the need to monopolize your time, then frankly they're shitty friends and you should find better ones. Being a good friend doesn't mean holding yourself back and stressing yourself just to satisfy the neediness of others.

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Force in the shower. Every little bit helps. Narrating is a good thing to do -- wake up and tell her good morning, and then tell her goodnight at night. Say random things in the day. It works. As long as you don't completely forget her, you should be fine... Just work when you can. It'll take you longer than most people, I suppose, but if she's worth it to you, than go for it.

 

I do do those things, so that's reassuring so thanks for that. I try to talk to her a lot and I do say good morning and goodnight to her. And she is really important to me and I tell her that and tell her how I don't want her to fade or to lose her.

 

Just turn off your phone for an hour or two to tulpaforce. If people get upset just explain that you need some alone time occasionally. If they still feel the need to monopolize your time, then frankly they're shitty friends and you should find better ones.

 

You're kind of right....

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Well, the majority of my time invested in my Tulpa is narration, and I'm moving along fine. Slushie's right, though. You are a human being with needs and one of those needs is a little bit of freedom :P

Tulpa: Xaine

Form: Humanoid Male

But Tulpa are sentient, whereas your right hand...isn't.

 

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Abandon your friends... Seriously, and If you are having that big of a problem doing that, begin with giving yourself (and your tulpa) said 1-3 hours each day alone (that shouldn't still be a problem even how occupied you are).

And then just increase the time with 30 mins to 1 hour each week or day or whatever you prefer.

The next time you know it, you will be all alone!

I must have ended up on the wrong planet. Everything here is so strange.

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See? Your tulpa is improving your life already.

 

The next time you know it, you will be all alone!

 

Honestly, what can't tulpas do? (I don't have much to add to this except for that shitty joke.) Like what everyone else said, managing your time so that you get a little bit each day for yourself is pretty important. That's kind of what meditation is and why it's good for you.

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