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[Personality] I'm Stuck with the personality part
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hello,i am a new tulpamancer and i really don't know what to do with personality.
i already read all the guides about it,bluesleeves method,faq-man's personality template,JD's guide and some more,I can't recall their names.
i tried to talk to my tulpa about how his traits showed themselves in his personality,but just a trait takes MORE than a hour,and it was so exhausting,that I started to try other methods,but they didn't work for me.
so what should i do? is it normal that a trait takes more than a hour? am i just being lazy?should i change the way i talk about his traits and find a more ''practical'' way to do it? please help,you would save me and my tulpa from weeks of unproductive research.[/size][/font]

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I didn't spend a ton of time on personality. I mainly had a list of 15 traits that I would read through and explain why each trait is important and what it means. Sometimes I'd explain a little about how someone with that trait might act. It couldn't have taken more than 10 minutes at a time for the whole list.

I let her know she is free to be herself if some of the traits conflicted with who she is. I didn't spend much time at all on it but went over the list a few times a day for the first week and maybe once a day or every other day the second week. At no point did I sit down and spend a half hour trying to force a particular trait.

It's just a different approach. Sarah has taken many of my suggested traits to heart, but has also surprised me in some ways.

How are you determining how long you need to spend on a particular trait? How will you know when you are "done"? Is your tulpa taking to you in mindvoice yet?
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(06-19-2014, 02:11 PM)SakuraSky Wrote: I didn't spend a ton of time on personality. I mainly had a list of 15 traits that I would read through and explain why each trait is important and what it means. Sometimes I'd explain a little about how someone with that trait might act. It couldn't have taken more than 10 minutes at a time for the whole list.

I let her know she is free to be herself if some of the traits conflicted with who she is. I didn't spend much time at all on it but went over the list a few times a day for the first week and maybe once a day or every other day the second week. At no point did I sit down and spend a half hour trying to force a particular trait.

It's just a different approach. Sarah has taken many of my suggested traits to heart, but has also surprised me in some ways.

How are you determining how long you need to spend on a particular trait? How will you know when you are "done"? Is your tulpa taking to you in mindvoice yet?
Firstly,i want to thank you for replying.
how do I determine the time? well,to be honest,I don't determine the time. I finish it when it feels like its done.
How do I know when I'm done? I think that I'm done when I feel that people are able to perceive that trait easily.
mindvoice? no,and I sometimes get those famous ''head pressures'' when i'm forcing... at least,when trying to do it...
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I guess what I'm confused about is... if your tulpa can't clearly communicate with you yet how can you expect to perceive personality traits? I may be misunderstanding
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Tulpa: Sarah (began June 5th, 2014), Alyx (Began July 23rd, 2014)
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(06-19-2014, 06:30 PM)SakuraSky Wrote: I guess what I'm confused about is... if your tulpa can't clearly communicate with you yet how can you expect to perceive personality traits? I may be misunderstanding

no,no, by ''perceiving'' I mean being able to imagine how people would react to that trait.

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