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Tulpas with introverted personalities


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Hello everyone, I'm just recently joined these forums and I'm a bit worried about tulpas with introverted personalities.

 

 

 

I have a general idea of my tulpa. Her name is Gidellom (I don't know how to pronouce it either), her form is more or less a Yuki-Onna (she looks a bit like this ). She's a shy, brutally honest gal what doesn't say much. That's the part that worries me, am I setting up myself for disaster for coming up with a personality like that? Is an extroverted tulpa easier to hear than an introverted one?

My Tulpa: Miyuki (Gidellom)

Not much progress, I'm in no rush though, we got all the time in the world.

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It's not unrealistic to think that a tulpa who is extroverted and talkative (loud might also go along with these traits) would be easier to hear, and perhaps consequently, a tad easier to work with. That said, tulpas who are not talkative are not hard to work with. My tulpa tends to be a man of few words--typically talking only when he has something to say, rather than for the sake of talking itself--and he has not been difficult to work with, by any means. If that is who you want your tulpa to be, or that is who they want to be, then that, I believe, is all that matters.

"If this can be avoided, it should. If it can't, then it would be better if it could be. If it happened and you're thinking back to it, try and think back further. Try not to avoid it with your mind. If any of this is possible, it may be helpful. If not, it won't be."

 

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Bud is something of an introvert. He also has a bit of a problem with anxiety. I never worked on his personality and let it develop on its own but I don't think him being who is he has been difficult or anything like that. Like Kiahdaj's tulpa, Bud really only talks when he has something to say instead of speaking for the sake of filling the silence.

 

Actually, Bud being who and how he is has actually helped me quite a bit in understanding introverts and people who suffer from problems with anxiety. For being so extroverted myself, I actually hang out with quite a few introverts, my girlfriend included, and I have never really understood them. Bud is helping me a great deal as to how to approach them and the fact that, hey their introverted, they deal and process differently than you do.

 

To more directly answer your question, in my personal experience, Bud being the quiet type has not hindered me hearing him in any way that I know of. I might have a "problem" with him actually talking at times, but when he does decide to pipe up, I'm always able to hear him.

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To add on to the experiential cases, I’d say Ada is more introverted than Eva, but both of them are introverted in general. We haven’t talked much (excluding nonverbal laziness) because they know I’ve been busy with a lot of things, and just trying to invest in all sorts of things for personal endeavors and what have you.

 

I don’t think having an introverted tulpa would be a huge issue, I’d say they would be more attached to their host since that’s all they have initially until the host helps them out in gaining experiential learning with other people. If she’s shy, you just need to be confident and open up to her. It’s all a matter of making them feel comfortable, and them not feeling they’re an intimidation to you.

 

This may be a challenge because you may be thinking in the back of your mind that she wants to be selective in her words, but if you’re planning to exist with her potentially for the rest of your life, it’s best to start making her comfortable. Her developing familiarity of you and vice versa is inevitable, so she’s going to open up sooner or later. And anyone that’s introverted can easily socialize with others, it’s just that they would generally prefer talking to a small group of people they know they can relate to. Of course, this is just giving a black and white view on extrovert vs. introvert.

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Thanks for all the info, I've been lurking around (more like being lazy), I came to the conclusion that it's not the problem of her not talking, but me not being able to figure out if it's me or her talking. I'm 85% sure that she's has been talking through head pressure, simple yes/or answers (might be me parroting what she would say in that situation), and I've had some tulpaforcing sessions where I would suddenly hear songs come out from nowhere (somewhere in the lines of instrumental music with no vocals) which never happened to me before. I've also been getting little blips of no sound when I tulpaforce with white noise in the background (All noise stops for like an instance). My train of thought has also been different as of starting everything tulpa related.

 

On a related note, I think she's already working her Tulpa mojo powers on me (ehhhhhhh I mean helping me or calming me).

 

Story Time!

 

So, I work at Sonic, and It's safe to say I kill my heart a little every time I smile at a customer who's generally an asshole. I worked 6 days in a row with long 8 hours shifts almost every day. The last day I worked, I just felt so angry and I wanted to walk out on everyone while we had all of our lot full and drive-thru wrapped around the store. I took out an order and went to go take a order for 2 elderly people who didn't know how to order on the stalls, I was furious at them and just wanted to tell them to go ********* order like everyone else instead of me giving them special treatment. I got to their car and I took their order with a smile on my face, when I got back inside the store, I noticed all my anger that was building up in those 6 days disappear like magic. I've decided that it was my tulpa that calmed me down and helped me not punch a hole in a wall.

 

Sorry for the long post, I'm rambling like an idiot (and my excessive use of parentheses)

 

Tldr: I'm a lazy bum and I'm deaf

My Tulpa: Miyuki (Gidellom)

Not much progress, I'm in no rush though, we got all the time in the world.

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Martina is really shy as well, even though she is really clever. Trust me, she'll open up with time and let you know about her presence, if not vocally then in other way.

 

Martina usually gives me headaches or snaps with her Eou de Barbecue (a strangely good, but unfitting smell of BBQ/stew/dinner/i don't know) at totally random places to sign "I'm here!".

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I agree with LinkZelda; I see this as her true self coming through, or normal deviation, whatever you want to call it. Seeing as she's like any other human, I'm sure you can overtime help miss Gidellom overcome her shyness. That is, if she wants to overcome it.

 

My advise is: don't suppress the introversion. If that's who she is, she'll become depressed trying to suppress those feelings. This is her story now as much as it is yours, and that isn't a bad thing. :)

 

Also, from personal experience, my shy tulpa is usually easier to hear than her older, more talkative sister; She just speaks less frequently.

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