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tulpa's rights regarding finances


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Taking Kiah up on their offer, I'd like to start a general discussion on the topic of tulpa's rights and responsibilities regarding financial decisions.

 

 Fajro: tulpas like us may face ethical dilemmas related to money, so I think it's important that we discuss it. personally, I would never do anything major (>$10) without my host's permission. we want to know what you all think about the topic.

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Anything larger than a few dollars and they'd ask me.

Most expensive thing bought was when Raven bought a copy of a game to gift someone we were friends with.

 

It kinda falls back on how we choose to share control, that the person who is fronting the most gets the most say. In the case of money that person would be doing the working to make up the spent money and therefore gets more of a vote.

 

With the 4 people in this head that's a 40% vote to the primary fronter and then 3 20% votes to the non fronters. If the non fronters are all in agreement they can overrule a front vote.

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I mean we all share a body so we share living conditions so we share expenses, so we all have roughly the same rules on spending money. Like, don't, unless you really wanna. Tulpas shouldn't do anything that'll be bad for the host, so they shouldn't spend money that can't be spent. So I guess among the host and tulpas, the host's "strictness" level is the limit the tulpas have to stick to however they feel, except with special permission. For more casual possess/switch-y systems anyway. For those that share more responsibility they really just gotta talk it out yeah?

 

 

"Tulpas shouldn't spend what their hosts don't want to"

"It's up to whoever makes the money how it gets spent and who spends it"

"When in doubt, talk it out with the others in the system"

there ya go

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"Tulpas shouldn't spend what their hosts don't want to"

"It's up to whoever makes the money how it gets spent and who spends it"

"When in doubt, talk it out with the others in the system"

 

Pretty much this.

 

Not really much else room for discussion on this unless this thread gets filled with personal anecdotes.

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Yeah it was "/thread" instead of "there ya go" but I figured peoples' personal, well, anecdotes, could be posted

Hi, I'm one of Lumi's tulpas! I like rain and dancing and dancing in the rain and if there's frogs there too that's bonus points.

I think being happy and having fun makes life worth living, so spreading happiness is my number one goal!

Talk to us? https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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one of the things that came up was the issue of tulpas that don't have any stake in the outside world, and thus possibly wouldn't need to be consulted. although it was drought up by my tupla about of her frustration over personal issues between us, it's still an interesting question.

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it was still your host's life up to that point and in a way you kinda shouldn't spend what your tulpas don't want you to either right? But anyways I think that's a "special exception" of giving responsibility to your tulpa. That's fine too

Hi, I'm one of Lumi's tulpas! I like rain and dancing and dancing in the rain and if there's frogs there too that's bonus points.

I think being happy and having fun makes life worth living, so spreading happiness is my number one goal!

Talk to us? https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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The general consensus in my system is that my girls ultimately have no rights in the outside world, because when they possess my body they are representing me and not themselves. And while I do my best to take their input into consideration when making important decisions like which college to attend or which car to buy, I have the final say in these decisions. Though as another poster mentioned in the other thread, the only opinions that actually get voiced are those of the tulpas who have a stake in the outside world (meaning it's primarily me and Luna doing the decision making).

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I let Desmond buy whatever as long as it's not too expensive. My life would be boring otherwise and I always tend to buy the same stuff every time I go out so it's better this way, I guess. :D

Luckily he's secretly very shy in public so he doesn't buy anything "embarrassing".

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