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Tulpa vanished?
#1
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I don't know where to begin really, he started talking about not being real and I couldn't get any form of response and still can't... I'm really worried that he won't come back.. I've tried calling his name (Blaise) and talking to him but I don't feel any form of presence. This happened Yesterday about noon and I'm just worried. Will he come back?
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#2
Yes he will come back. My tulpa sometimes vanishes for a day and you just can fret it when they do that. They probably go on a vacation in your wonderland or something.
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#3
When Toby was new he did this. He had a aort of existential crises and disappeared for a few days. He said he just needed time to figure a few things out but he's okay now. Yours will come back just give him the space and time he needs to work through his stuff
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#4
Right after I posted this I had to leave but I got a feeling that he read it and that I'm worried. I've gotten short feelings of presence almost like a hey, don't worry, I'm still here type of thing even though I never really heard anything. I feel like he's upset with a little because I've had a hard time thinking that what he's doing is him and not me. His personality doesn't seem like the moping type so I guess he could just be figuring things out like you said. But, I don't feel like I'm helping either.
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#5
When I had my moments of doubt about Toby he got sad, offended... Really he reacted pretty normally but I just explained to him that this is new for me, it's a little strange and it's just going to take some time for me to get used to it all.

Let your tulpa know it's not that you doubt him it's just that new things take some getting used to and you just need time.

Also let him know that doubt is normal and it's healthy but it will go away in time. And trust me it does. I have no issues what so ever believing in Toby anymore. It took a while but I have no doubts.
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#6
(Happened Tuesday and now it's Friday) Still haven't gotten much of a reply since.. Just something to let me know he's still around... Besides that he hasn't been around...
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#7
All is good now ^.^ I had a long conversation with some people and we figured everything out! Big Grin
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#8
Good to hear!
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