Guest Anonymous February 9, 2016 Share February 9, 2016 This is a thread to record your efforts and success with helping your host with self improvement goals! My host had a very, very scary health related crisis recently. He is okay, but he needs my help and influence to get in shape and get better. I can do that. But that got me thinking again (a very scary thing Melian thinking). Recently somewhere there was some talk bout making a thread for tulpas to talk about how they are helping their hosts with exercise and goals and stuff. So I thought I would start a community thread in the lounge on that idea. It would be sort of a Host Progress Report thread for tulpa peeps to share, talk, and laugh while poking some joking fun at their hosts and inspiring them to do better. Hosts with tulpas who are not vocal yet can write about how their tulpa is helping, even if the tulpa can't write it themselves. I don't think there has to be a specific format, but I think you can start by stating what your goal for your host is and then give updates on how you are doing now and then. Talk it over with yer host, eeeek, don't just demand they have some unrealistic goal they don't agree to sillies! The goals can be anything, it doesn't have to be exercise. It could be getting homework done or eating better or learning something like a musical instrument. Whatever you and your host come up with. You can motivate your host anyway you want to. I use inspirational imagery like flash images, day dreaming of me dancing when he goes jogging, little mind voice reminders and encouraging words, praise and even punishment. See my "how to punish yer host" thread here https://community.tulpa.info/thread-tulpas-have-you-ever-punished-your-host-lol for ideas on that. (hee hee) MELIAN'S HOST IMPROVEMENT GOALS 1. Limit our internet time. Get up and walk around at least every half hour. Go for walks. Do something else. Get some projects done now and then, sheesh. 2. Lose 12 to 15 pounds of body weight. Currently he is at 174.5 pounds. That is too heavy. 3. Continue jogging at least three times a week. That one should be easy, he likes to cause I dance for him while he listens to jogging music. 4. Do push ups and weights at least three times a week. This one is more of a challenge but he better or else, the old nerdy, wimpy, noodle armed goat! Mr. Pudge Belly! 5. Davie needs to lighten up about tulpas and stop worrying about his Melian. Sheesh. I will help by carefully monitoring our posts on Tulpa Info, his and mine. He and I plan to work together to censor and monitor each other. We need to control attention seeking behavior, defensiveness, insecurity and aggression... well okay and silliness, derailing and inappropriate posts too. That is kinda a goal for both of us and stuff. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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