Guest Anonymous February 10, 2016 Share February 10, 2016 Most of the time I don't have to motivate her to do anything. I do it by existing, and when I do have to motivate or remind her of something I just have to say it. She knows this stuff but sometimes she needs a kick in the ass. I am just curious about something. Can you elaborate on how you "kick her in the ass?" Other tulpas my find this information helpful. LOL Is it just verbal nagging and harassment? Luna: We don't have any specific self-improvement goals at the moment, other than maybe getting him to lose a bit of weight and eat better. Elise got him to start putting lettuce on his sandwiches, which is at least a step in the right direction. Hey, losing weight is important and that is a very specific self-improvement goal. Congrats to Elise on getting hostie to eat lettuce. Hee hee What I DO work on a lot with him lately is getting all his coursework done, and now working on his thesis. Plus a lot of other adult stuff we haven't really had to worry about until this year, like getting a car, paying insurance, etc. GOOD! See? Our hosts need us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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