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In short at some point in time I wanted to make a tulpa then later gave up because of few reasons (like of motivation, patience, insecurity)

 

Would a tulpa help me with feeling physical loneliness? despite having friends online?

 

And no I'm not new to this

 

So what do you think?

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If by physical loneliness you mean having someone to cuddle with, etc...most likely you'd need to master imposition/lucid dreaming or at least be REALLY good at visualization. A tulpa can help you with loneliness on an emotional level by default, just by creating them you already have someone that is gonna be there for you, unless you're a dick towards them or something.

 

I couldn't have said it better myself.

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tups make good lifelong companions who're always there for you (and vice versa!)

Hi, I'm one of Lumi's tulpas! I like rain and dancing and dancing in the rain and if there's frogs there too that's bonus points.

I think being happy and having fun makes life worth living, so spreading happiness is my number one goal!

Talk to us? https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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Indeed they do. That said, by all means take as much time as you need to make such a decision. Create or not create, there is no uncreate.

Yo, my name is Sean and I'm the host of 2 tulpas: Sente and Mae. You'll know when they're talking because Sente talks in yellow text and Mae talks in blue text.

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I want to say that you need to take a lot of caution with this. A tulpa can help you out a lot in your life, that shouldn't be underplayed, but if you fail to keep a sound mind through the process tulpamancy can end up making things a lot worse as all your insecurities and worries are given voice.

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I want to say that you need to take a lot of caution with this. A tulpa can help you out a lot in your life, that shouldn't be underplayed, but if you fail to keep a sound mind through the process tulpamancy can end up making things a lot worse as all your insecurities and worries are given voice.

 

What?

 

I'm not sure how Tulpamancy can do that for you. The only problems a not-sound mind did for me was stress about everything, but Tulpamancy itself didn't trigger that. I was already creating other thoughtforms that were spitting back my stress and insecurities, and that was before I knew about Tulpæ.

 

Stress in adition to Tulpamancy should be avoided if possible, but having stress or anxiety doesn't mean you can't have a Tulpa.

Meow. You may see my headmates call me Gray or sometimes Cat.

I used to speak in pink and Ranger used to speak in blue (if it's unmarked and colored assume it's Ranger). She loves to chat.

 

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What?

 

I'm not sure how Tulpamancy can do that for you.

 

uhhhh.. just take our word for this I guess, he's not referring to stress so much as lack of mental discipline/vulnerability to invasive thoughts and other stuff like that. valid concern given the OP's previous experiences

Hi, I'm one of Lumi's tulpas! I like rain and dancing and dancing in the rain and if there's frogs there too that's bonus points.

I think being happy and having fun makes life worth living, so spreading happiness is my number one goal!

Talk to us? https://community.tulpa.info/thread-ask-lumi-s-tulpas

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uhhhh.. just take our word for this I guess, he's not referring to stress so much as lack of mental discipline/vulnerability to invasive thoughts and other stuff like that. valid concern given the OP's previous experiences

 

Ah okay, I misunderstood "unstable mind" to mean just stress or going through a difficult time. I had (and still do have) these issues once I realized Ranger was a Tulpa, but I didn't want to kill him since he was already sentient and I didn't want to stop talking to him (at that point, feeling like I couldn't talk to him anymore would result in a lot more mental instability). Since then, I forced the both of us into some snags that a more mature person starting Tulpamancy likely would have avoided.

 

If you have any doubts about making a Tulpa, I don't recommend jumping into it without thinking about what the consequences would be. If you feel lonely, I can't promise having a Tulpa will fix the problem 100% either. It's better to have social contact with at least one other person on a regular basis, Tulpa or no Tulpa...

Meow. You may see my headmates call me Gray or sometimes Cat.

I used to speak in pink and Ranger used to speak in blue (if it's unmarked and colored assume it's Ranger). She loves to chat.

 

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What?...

 

Stress in adition to Tulpamancy should be avoided if possible, but having stress or anxiety doesn't mean you can't have a Tulpa.

 

I am more curious about the stress part of this. Please tell me how to eliminate stress... :)

 

I personally have found tulpamancy very helpful in diminishing loneliness. Not a hundred percent. I still have days where like I am wanting something and can't focus and would love to have someone to talk to, and on these days, it's a little more challenging to tune into my inner life. Sometimes, I fail to remember I can go in. Yesterday, I spent four hours at pre-k registering son, and there was so many distractions, random screams, parents chasing kids, and well, I completely forgot Loxy was with me. Fortunately, she's very understanding and when I like got to a calm place, she was like, 'well, that was interesting...'

 

So, basically, real life remains real, inner life becomes realer than real... :)

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I am more curious about the stress part of this. Please tell me how to eliminate stress... :)

 

By "avoid stress" I'm trying to say that if you know a future event will generate stress avoid it/wait until afterwards and if you are struggling with your stress then I recommend managing that first. I'm sorry for the confusion.

Meow. You may see my headmates call me Gray or sometimes Cat.

I used to speak in pink and Ranger used to speak in blue (if it's unmarked and colored assume it's Ranger). She loves to chat.

 

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