How could I go about 'doing it' with my tulpa?

[Aki]

My tulpa recently got rather intimate with me (not complaining), and we were wondering how we could... mate. 

Tips and suggestions would be nice.

 

Thx

[Flandre]

Well I guess someone will need to answer, so

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Spoiler

Visualization of yourselves in the wonderland, masturbation IRL
Adventurous systems might try possession of an arm by the tulpa, that seems a bit much though

You may just need to be a bit creative.

 

[Glaurung26]

Wonderland. 

 

Depending on what you're into besides tulpamancy you could lean on certain aides to "help things along." We're fond of games with adult mods, that way we can play house and take a tumble between the bed sheets there. Also watching nsfw media and videos can get the hormones flowing. Pretty straightforward stuff.

 

But the important thing to keep in mind that it's something you're sharing with your tulpa, not with a hot celebrity or a fictional character OC. Find intimacy that involves the two of you. Imagine somewhere romantic where it can be just the two of you without a care about the outside world. Confess your feelings for each other, share some sexy fantasies and you know...whatever comes to mind. It can be serious, it can be funny, it can be romantic. Whatever setting you two seem to bond over. Go on a Wonderland date and see where it takes you. 

 

I could talk about some of the more, uh, "mechanical aspects" and even logistics/preparation but even in your imagination just listen to your hormones. They tend to tell you how things work. Visualization and imposition exercises are good. You can basically have VR sex with your mind when you two get good enough at things.

[Ice909]

As everyone else has said, wonderland. 

For us, Layy and I have over time gotten to a very, very precise level of visualization in the wonderland, but then again, we've been committed to each other for about 2 years, so we've had time to practice. In our experience, masturbation can only go so far. Sometimes simple wonderlanding really is the best solution. 

As Darron pointed out, you two are both people. Individuals. Treat each other like such. Maybe give it some time before you and your tup engage in sexual behavior, though. All the same, good luck. 

[glitchthe3rd]

We've always just used closed-eye visualization and a pillow tbh. Within the past year I've finally bought a body pillow, and we've found that the added mass helps in that regard (not to mention the health benefits for the body, I've been having less back and shoulder problems because of it).

[The Candlelight Society]

We use the wonderland for that stuff, but I also know that imposition can work. My first tip shared to me by another much more experienced tulpamancer in this regard, drop masturbation. With the right skill you can (pretty quickly) get to a point where it's not needed and you will actually have a greater amount of pleasure in the end because of that. 

 

Intense visualization of doing it with your mindforms and leaning into emotional bleed will get you there fast. 

 

From there, experiment and find what works for you.

Edited April 16, 2022 by Michael Blackwater
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