Luminesce August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 (edited) Nearly all of my criticisms of ways of thinking are because I believe that holding them long-term will be detrimental to one's quality of life in some way, and that they would be better off changing, including at least hearing from someone at least somewhat reasonable that it may not be optimal, for later future reference/recollection when they may be ready to consider changing that way of thinking I hear that I don't always get my points across elegantly and I'm sure sass makes its way in, but at least literally nothing I've ever said was ill-intended Edited August 12, 2022 by Luminesce Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice909 August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 1 minute ago, Luminesce said: Nearly all of my criticisms of ways of thinking are because I believe that holding them long-term will be detrimental to one's quality of life in some way, and they would be better off changing, including at least hearing from someone at least somewhat reasonable that it may not be optimal, for later future reference/recollection when they may be ready to consider changing that way of thinking ya 1 minute ago, Luminesce said: I hear that I don't always get my points across elegantly and I'm sure sass makes its way in, but at least literally nothing I've ever said was ill-intended I didn't want to be rude I just didn;t care that I was </3 Hey there, the name's Bryan. In system Re:Body(In order of the rainbow): Sean, Esper, Blinky, Compact, Janey, Kyle, Gwen'd, Gwen, Emily, Rollin, Waynin, Trease, Layy, Justin, Chloe, Zachery, and Elliot. I've been here a while. Much longer than I thought I'd be. Our system was founded October 2nd, 2018. In early 2020, we decided that due to our systems exponential growth, we'd limit who would be active. Now, every month, we do a check to see who wishes to be in dormancy and who wishes to be active. Currently, for the month of April, 2023, we've got myself(Bryan), Janey(Co-host), Emily, Layy, Chloe, and Esper(sub-rep). After over 2 long years, we can finally switch :) Bryan is currently swapped in as host, Esper is sub-rep. "There used to be 7 wonders of the world, but now there's 8, as everyone wonders how much of a fool you are." Ice909#0065 -- Always down for a chat https://discord.gg/89qN59SbRp Plural safe-space Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luminesce August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 You don't care that you're rude a lot Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breloomancer August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 7 minutes ago, Luminesce said: you CANNOT go by she/her and nonbinary at the same time why not? pronouns aren't gender I have a tulpa named Miela who I love very much. How we got here | Share your experimental tulpamancy ideas | My unhinged ramblings "People put quotes in their signatures, right?" -Me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glaurung26 August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 I thought pronouns were tied to and representative of your gender. They're packed together near universally. Darron: Host 💍 Jaina: Tulpa 💍 (Raccoon Queen 🦝👸) 👨👩👧👦Dain and Nova Aggrok: Tulpa Void Dragon Viktor: 🐺 [DeviantArt] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breloomancer August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 they normally are, but there's no reason why you can't use she/her without subscribing to any other aspects of being female. nonbinary isn't a gender as much as a set of genders; calling yourself nonbinary just means that you aren't strictly male or female, but it doesn't mean that you can't have aspects of either or both I have a tulpa named Miela who I love very much. How we got here | Share your experimental tulpamancy ideas | My unhinged ramblings "People put quotes in their signatures, right?" -Me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luminesce August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 25 minutes ago, Breloomancer said: why not? pronouns aren't gender pronouns are gender pronouns are gender pronouns are gender pronouns are gender pronouns are gender pronouns are gender Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breloomancer August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 why do you think pronouns are gender? I have a tulpa named Miela who I love very much. How we got here | Share your experimental tulpamancy ideas | My unhinged ramblings "People put quotes in their signatures, right?" -Me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ice909 August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 because they are. Bre, if you're saying something and everyone is getting angry and telling you you're wrong, that doesn't mean you're right. Like Darron put it, pronouns and gender are a package deal. The separation of the two is arbitrary. I have a hard time understanding why y'all care so much about gender, like, aren't y'all fine just vibing with whatever you are? why does it matter? It doesn't! Hey there, the name's Bryan. In system Re:Body(In order of the rainbow): Sean, Esper, Blinky, Compact, Janey, Kyle, Gwen'd, Gwen, Emily, Rollin, Waynin, Trease, Layy, Justin, Chloe, Zachery, and Elliot. I've been here a while. Much longer than I thought I'd be. Our system was founded October 2nd, 2018. In early 2020, we decided that due to our systems exponential growth, we'd limit who would be active. Now, every month, we do a check to see who wishes to be in dormancy and who wishes to be active. Currently, for the month of April, 2023, we've got myself(Bryan), Janey(Co-host), Emily, Layy, Chloe, and Esper(sub-rep). After over 2 long years, we can finally switch :) Bryan is currently swapped in as host, Esper is sub-rep. "There used to be 7 wonders of the world, but now there's 8, as everyone wonders how much of a fool you are." Ice909#0065 -- Always down for a chat https://discord.gg/89qN59SbRp Plural safe-space Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luminesce August 12, 2022 Share August 12, 2022 Pronouns are what you want to be socially defined as, not strictly tied to your sex Gender is what you want to be socially defined as, not strictly tied to your sex If "your gender doesn't match your pronouns", you're reaching unparalleled levels of special snowflake Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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