[Game] Last one to post wins!

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Only argument remains

[Tewi]

I hope it's not arguing.

[TurboSimmie]

@Rena Bonnie I'm really sorry if I ever gave you the impression that I wasn't willing to talk to you or TB. 😭 I want you to know that I am always here and willing to talk to you, so please send us a DM if you feel like talking. 💚

 

@Tewi I suppose we've each said our piece and I'm willing to just move on if you are too. Just know that my esteem for you has not changed, I have a lot of respect for you and want you to know that you are so, so valuable to this community! 💚

 

I have to get going for now, so have a great day everyone! 😁👋

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Only drama remains

[a937539]

27 minutes ago, TurboSimmie said:

Tewi, I do have to point out that you sidestepped the substance of what I said to you. And bringing up a quote from months ago is dirty, especially since it brings fresh hurt to TB. Since those tense events I have reflected a lot on how I interact with people and what my role really is in this social community. Will you reflect on yourself? Are you willing to change and grow?

I'm sorry to read this It just serves underline how differently we see the situation.

 

I wasn't going to comment on how you addressed Tewi this morning. But I will now. 

You're heavy-handed approach to their personal flaws is extremely inconsiderate. And to say it comes from a place of love while not offering any sort of positive criticism is a slap in the face.

 

As for TB's hurt, you caused that. 

 

To say that you've learned from those events, I'm not sure you have. You're aware that you made a mistake, but do you know how to change your communication?

In the comment you also deflect responsibility for your action.

What will you do?

 

 

So often within the past couple of months I've seen us tear each other down and it breaks my heart. I thought we were a group of consolidated friends that would work together towards the future. 

 

[Tewi]

8 minutes ago, TurboSimmie said:

 

@Tewi I suppose we've each said our piece and I'm willing to just move on if you are too. Just know that my esteem for you has not changed, I have a lot of respect for you and

 

Yucky brain. At this point in reading this I was already thinking "You don't have to compliment me, I just want us to get alon-"

 

The problem runs deep, lol.. Please infer all the care and kindness we don't know how to say in our posts: the efforts we make - despite them being hard for us - to make sure everyone gets along are the sign that we care, if we didn't we would simply have left. Every argument we try to resolve, every problem we respond with a paragraph(s) to, that is us going out of our way because we care about people, because we want everyone to be happy and friendly with each other. So for as long as we don't know how to express these things in the way everyone else does, please remember we mean it.

 

(Another thing we'd want you to "infer" but maybe should be stated - we are not backing anyone's current criticisms of you! I really think these are just misunderstandings and no one is acting badly)

Edited February 7 by Tewi

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Yeah I wasn’t going to say anything but you need to back off simmie

[Tewi]

We can't stand when everyone gangs up at once after one person calls someone out. If you were going to say something you should've before, waiting and doing it all at once is cruel and uncalled for, and always too much pressure for someone to deal with. Simmie was under the impression I just dug up that quote to throw something bad she said at her unprompted, she didn't know TB specifically told us it was still unresolved in DM, I should've stated that more explicitly.

 

Please don't be mean, in either direction, no one here wanted to hurt anyone.

Edited February 7 by Tewi

[Rena Bonnie]

30 minutes ago, TurboSimmie said:

@Rena Bonnie I'm really sorry if I ever gave you the impression that I wasn't willing to talk to you or TB. 😭 I want you to know that I am always here and willing to talk to you, so please send us a DM if you feel like talking. 💚

Thank you so much, I will gather my bearings and send a message later today. I will do my best to.

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I’m sorry too, tb. I’ve been too crazy as well. I don’t know how much you trust me to give advice, but I’ve done a really bad job of it.
 

I’m pulling out of this drama guys. I don’t know how willing yall still are to fight, but I don’t want to feed the beast anymore than I already have