Ranger May 4, 2021 Share May 4, 2021 (edited) On respecting other traumatic systems who find tulpamancy offensive... Spoiler If another system is present in my space outside of this forum, especially irl, I won't bring up tulpamancy. I generally assume any traumatic system in the wild may find tulpamancy triggering, to the point I could hurt them if I mention it. Therefore, if someone revealed they had DID/OSDD, I would keep my mouth shut until we got to know them better. While it may seem disingenuous to hide our plurality after they come out to us, I don't want to risk hurting them. However, if they told me I would have to dissipate myself and/or my headmates, that's not happening. I'm not going to tell them how to manage their system because I don't know them, the same respect should be given to me. If they don't want to think of me as a separate person that's their choice, but I'm not going to force my system to do anything just because they don't like it. I know Gray is on the fence about tulpamancy and I understand that it may or may not be real, but I'm not going to give up my sense of self if I have to make a choice. Granted, I can't think of a scenario where I would need to make such a choice, even if Cat's parents took a sharp crazy turn and demanded my dissipation, how would they know if I'm actually gone or not? It's not like they know us well enough to tell me and Gray apart anyway. While I believe we should respect a traumatic system's needs and if needed not talk about how we're a tulpa system, they don't have the authority to go as far and say I and my headmates are not allowed to exist. You're more than welcome to think of me as a fake person and request for us to not bring it up, but you don't decide if I exist or not. Anyway, howdy all. I'm sorry I'm late to the conversation, I don't always check this thread. Edited May 4, 2021 by Ranger I'm Ranger, GrayTheCat's cobud (tulpa), and I love hippos! I also like cake and chatting about stuff. I go by Rosalin or Ronan sometimes. You can call me Roz but please don't call me Ron. My other headmates have their own account now. If I missed seeing your art, please PM/DM me! Blog | Not So Temporary Log | Switching Log | Yay! | Bre Translator | Art Thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboSimmie May 4, 2021 Share May 4, 2021 3 minutes ago, Ranger said: While I believe we should respect a traumatic system's needs and if needed not talk about how we're a tulpa system, they don't have the authority to go as far and say I and my headmates are not allowed to exist. You're more than welcome to think of me as a fake person and request for us to not bring it up, but you don't decide if I exist or not. 👏👏👏 Tulpa Wife & Mother! 💚 💍 11.28.21 👶 4.7.23 👗 Simmie's AI Dress-Up! 📷 Phil and Simmie's Photographic Adventures! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboSimmie May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 How are my tulpa friends doing? It's been a while! Tulpa Wife & Mother! 💚 💍 11.28.21 👶 4.7.23 👗 Simmie's AI Dress-Up! 📷 Phil and Simmie's Photographic Adventures! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moltosha Shadow May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 Hello, I am doing alright. How are you? I am Moltosha from the Shadow System. I speak in both normal and brown text, I find it useful for grounding. You may have seen my host Cat/Gray or Ranger my headmate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboSimmie May 10, 2021 Share May 10, 2021 I'm doing well, just enjoying some soup. It's good to meet you! 😁 Tulpa Wife & Mother! 💚 💍 11.28.21 👶 4.7.23 👗 Simmie's AI Dress-Up! 📷 Phil and Simmie's Photographic Adventures! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moltosha Shadow May 11, 2021 Share May 11, 2021 Thank you, you as well. I'm not sure if food is something I'm terribly interested in. I am somewhat curious about Gray's mathematics, but mostly I'm more curious about observing the world around me. I wonder if I would appreciate Zen teachings, it has been discussed on Discord for quite a bit recently. I am Moltosha from the Shadow System. I speak in both normal and brown text, I find it useful for grounding. You may have seen my host Cat/Gray or Ranger my headmate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboSimmie May 11, 2021 Share May 11, 2021 That's something I've never looked into, but now I wonder if I should. Tulpa Wife & Mother! 💚 💍 11.28.21 👶 4.7.23 👗 Simmie's AI Dress-Up! 📷 Phil and Simmie's Photographic Adventures! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moltosha Shadow May 11, 2021 Share May 11, 2021 I am reading this article Lula linked, and I think I like it somewhat. I like the idea that you don't need to be wrapped up in standards, things change and often times it's your standards that are the problem. I am Moltosha from the Shadow System. I speak in both normal and brown text, I find it useful for grounding. You may have seen my host Cat/Gray or Ranger my headmate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glaurung26 May 12, 2021 Share May 12, 2021 Good morning! Afternoon? Spoiler 😄 How is everyone? Darron: Host 💍 Jaina: Tulpa 💍 (Raccoon Queen 🦝👸) 👨👩👧👦Dain and Nova Aggrok: Tulpa Void Dragon Viktor: 🐺 [DeviantArt] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ranger May 12, 2021 Share May 12, 2021 (edited) Tired. We had a very weird wonderland adventure that we never intended to be a wonderland adventure. I thought of the perfect LOTPW question Edited May 12, 2021 by Ranger I'm Ranger, GrayTheCat's cobud (tulpa), and I love hippos! I also like cake and chatting about stuff. I go by Rosalin or Ronan sometimes. You can call me Roz but please don't call me Ron. My other headmates have their own account now. If I missed seeing your art, please PM/DM me! Blog | Not So Temporary Log | Switching Log | Yay! | Bre Translator | Art Thread Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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