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  1. In the end, we're just random faceless people on the internet, anyway, and nobody knows the truth about what's going on with any of us, except each of us as individuals. PEACE, I'm done.
  2. I think some folks here are grossly oversimplifying here by saying basically "if he won't let you then he doesn't deserve you and you should leave him". Honestly, those of you saying that stuff, how many/how long relationships have you been in? Because I've been in one for almost 10 years and I can tell you that long term relationships are NOT POSSIBLE if you have that kind of "my way or the highway" attitude. Tulpas are great but you're dealing with real, external people with feelings, so you might want to consider those feelings and motivations a little bit, huh? When you have disagreements, the first step is to find out exactly WHY you're disagreeing and what over. Number one causes of kneejerk reactions in significant others is fear or jealousy. He's probably actually afraid of what your desire for a tulpa means. If he thinks it will make you crazy, then yes, maybe he needs more info, but there might be a more simple and basic fear at play here. If you only gave him a basic description, he might worry that your desire for a tulpa means that you don't love him or don't find your relationship with him to be properly satisfying, and you're going to have to find a way to reassure him that he will still be just as important to you as ever. Maybe that's not why he's mad (there not a lot of info here) but you need to ask. So before giving out any ultimatums, here's an idea: why don't you ask him WHY he has a problem with it? Communication is good, yes?
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