How do I help my tulpa?

[chesnaut]

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Edited November 23, 2022 by Feather.Weather

[Formicidae]

If your tulpa is ok with it, then I would recommend that you both work on lowering that need to a more normal and workable level. Tulpae are malleable, so with enough focus on personality forcing you will be able to change a lot. Keep in mind that we're relatively inexperienced and although we've been at this for three years we've not gone into advanced techniques or engaged much with the community, so I would welcome the perspective of a more experienced member.

[TurboSimmie]

It's important to set boundaries. Let your tulpa know that there are times and situations where it would be inappropriate. Let it be a special thing that you two do only sometimes rather than something that's constantly happening. Also, help your tulpa develop the non-sexual aspects of their personality and encourage them to explore and discover other hobbies and interests that can take up some of their thoughts and time.