My Tulpa is acting aggressively

[Uimiko]

At the request of the Tulpa, the post has been changed.

Edited August 1, 2022 by Uimiko

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Fulaipy said:

Could his aggressive reaction be my obsessive thought, anxiety really my fantasy, like a habit?

 

These are typically intrusive thoughts bubbling up from unresolved issues. It's best in my opinion to not associate those to your headmates.

 

2 hours ago, Fulaipy said:

Ryu was based on the highly traumatic and even violent anime character Ryunosuke Akutagawa.

 

Again, unless you want a headmate like this, then just ignore the aggressive stuff. Consider it like, you're expecting this behavior because of the past character, and so you can encourage them to be their own person.

 

Understand that he doesn't have to own his past, he isn't the character he's based on.

 

 

[Uimiko]

Thank you! Any help would be helpful. 

[The-Syreth-Clan]

23 hours ago, Fulaipy said:

Ryu was based on the highly traumatic and even violent anime character Ryunosuke Akutagawa. And from the very beginning, in order to avoid a lot of problems, I give up all negative traits, every day I give him a list of positive ones.

Your conscious did, not your subconscious. The character of Ryunosuke Akutagawa in your mind has been linked with violence and aggression. If you're particularly deeply fascinated with the character undoing that link will be difficult.

 

23 hours ago, Fulaipy said:

Please tell us how can we get over his past?

The quick and dirty method would be identity switch; take up a new form and a new name and start from a blank slate completely unrelated to the character. Alternatively, as he gains experience in life he will slowly distance himself from the character he was based on and deviate naturally.

[Uimiko]

13 hours ago, Mel Syreth said:

Это сделало ваше сознание, а не ваше подсознание. Персонаж Рюноске Акутагавы в вашем представлении ассоциируется с насилием и агрессией. Если вы особенно глубоко увлечены персонажем, отменить эту связь будет сложно.

 

Быстрым и грязным методом будет переключение личности; возьмите новую форму и новое имя и начните с чистого листа, совершенно не связанного с персонажем. В качестве альтернативы, по мере того, как он набирает жизненный опыт, он постепенно дистанцируется от персонажа, на котором был основан, и естественным образом отклоняется.

Now everything is in order. The last advice helped me from the bear. These were all obsessive thoughts, and Ryunosuke had nothing to do with it. He is not associated with violence or aggression, now he is calm and kind. 

 

[Gals of Brainian Village]

On 6/13/2022 at 12:24 AM, Uimiko said:

Now everything is in order. The last advice helped me from the bear. These were all obsessive thoughts, and Ryunosuke had nothing to do with it. He is not associated with violence or aggression, now he is calm and kind. 

 

Very happy to hear that, congratulations! -🪸

[Moon Voilo]

I think you're on the right path, your tulpa might have accidentally gotten some exomemories from the character you based them off. Help them recover, talk to them about their issues, and see if you can find healthy coping mechanisms for them.

 

Edit: just read everythings fine now. Whoops, ignore me lmao

Edited July 20, 2022 by Moon Voilo