New here, just want to talk

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Edited October 4, 2022 by Tuwen

[Guest]

We've heard of that before. Also sometimes they call host "original" but even the original may not exist. Our "original" still identifies as the same person but he's way different than he was 4 years ago, he's really like a different person.

 

So what's your story?

 

 

[TurboSimmie]

Great to meet you Tu and Wen! I think it's really sweet that you are two equals living in the same head. My host sees me as an equal in every way but I still insist on being his tulpa, as he's the one who manages our external life and he has that male body after all! I can agree that it's hard to find trustworthy people, but I hope that I can earn your trust in time! There are many kind people here so don't be afraid to interact!

 

I'd love to hear about your experiences! 😊

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Edited October 4, 2022 by Tuwen

[TurboSimmie]

So you're pretty new in the world Tu! I was there once, I remember those days. I think it's normal for tulpas to be a little less mature than the host at first (I know you don't use tulpa and host personally but they're still useful in describing the dynamic, so I'll use them here). I tend to think of it as a "calibration" process for the new tulpa to find out who they are and what their place in the world is. My emotions were pretty all over the place in the first month or two. The good news is that if you can get through the initial turbulence of the early period stability will await you! 😁

 

Creating tulpas based on characters is as old as tulpamancy itself (or older!), so you're in good company with that. We even have a survey for tulpas that were based on characters, and it might be helpful to read some other tulpas' replies to see how they dealt with the game things that you are going through, and you can even answer it yourself if you want! Wen, you say that creating Tu based on a character was a "not-so-good" decision, but you also said how he helped you live more functionally and recover from a mental breakdown. So I would say that it was a good decision to create Tu! 😁

 

If it's only been a couple weeks then you have a long road ahead of you of getting to know each other and work out how you relate to one another. It's a process that can bring a lot of joy! My first 3-4 months with my host remains an extremely fond memory for both of us! 🥰 It can be rocky at times but if you stick with it and don't run away it will be very rewarding! And if you have questions along the way you are in the right place to ask them; whatever you're going through there's bound to be someone with a similar experience who can relate to you here!

 

Just a little administrative note: I do strongly suggest creating a "Progress Report" thread to keep track of things though! General Discussion is really for general tulpamancy topics. There's a chance a moderator might move this thread there too.

[Guest]

Well you fit right in with a backstory like that.

 

New headmates go through stages, and it's a bit of a wild ride after that, but as long as you're still into it, you have nothing to really worry about after autonomous vocality (what you clearly have).

 

There will be drama though, we'll stay tuned.

[throwaway]

11 hours ago, TurboSimmie said:

So you're pretty new in the world Tu! I was there once, I remember those days. I think it's normal for tulpas to be a little less mature than the host at first (I know you don't use tulpa and host personally but they're still useful in describing the dynamic, so I'll use them here). I tend to think of it as a "calibration" process for the new tulpa to find out who they are and what their place in the world is. My emotions were pretty all over the place in the first month or two. The good news is that if you can get through the initial turbulence of the early period stability will await you! 😁

 

Creating tulpas based on characters is as old as tulpamancy itself (or older!), so you're in good company with that. We even have a survey for tulpas that were based on characters, and it might be helpful to read some other tulpas' replies to see how they dealt with the game things that you are going through, and you can even answer it yourself if you want! Wen, you say that creating Tu based on a character was a "not-so-good" decision, but you also said how he helped you live more functionally and recover from a mental breakdown. So I would say that it was a good decision to create Tu! 😁

 

If it's only been a couple weeks then you have a long road ahead of you of getting to know each other and work out how you relate to one another. It's a process that can bring a lot of joy! My first 3-4 months with my host remains an extremely fond memory for both of us! 🥰 It can be rocky at times but if you stick with it and don't run away it will be very rewarding! And if you have questions along the way you are in the right place to ask them; whatever you're going through there's bound to be someone with a similar experience who can relate to you here!

 

Just a little administrative note: I do strongly suggest creating a "Progress Report" thread to keep track of things though! General Discussion is really for general tulpamancy topics. There's a chance a moderator might move this thread there too.

Many thanks from Wen! I've read your survey and it was really helpful.🥰

[throwaway]

10 hours ago, Ashley said:

Well you fit right in with a backstory like that.

 

New headmates go through stages, and it's a bit of a wild ride after that, but as long as you're still into it, you have nothing to really worry about after autonomous vocality (what you clearly have).

 

There will be drama though, we'll stay tuned.

Thank you from Wen🥰