That seemingly impossible thing

[Dysos]

Introduction

What really is impossible though, if you think about all the amazing things in history (I know, I know. A lot is impossible, but go read 'A short history of nearly everything' - Bill Bryson. I'm reading it to Toba now and it's cool) Anyway! I welcome you in my humble PR. Here I am, now better prepared then last time.

I've done my research, wrote down the personality and created a form I've been imagining and working and researching on for quite some time. I know it may change completely, but oh well. Toba is still somewhat here I guess, we're just starting over together. Start with the beginning. That's when every hardship you'll come across will count at the end and you'll actually have a chance to win this thing.

 

Method used

FigN01's forcing method (Combination of personality, form and imposition) in combination with Fede's tulpatone.

 

About me

You can call me Dysos. I'm a 20 year old Dutch girl (excuse my English), and try to enjoy life as much as possible. I'm open minded but realistic. I always seek for explanations behind things and try to find out as much information as possible before starting on something. Love to surf, snowboard, do several other sports, visit festivals (Anyone else going to Sziget this year?), read and research. According to the the Myers-Briggs personality type I am ENTP.

 

So, the personality:

 

Openness to experience

a general appreciation for art, emotion, adventure, unusual ideas, imagination, curiosity, and variety of experience. People who are open to experience are intellectually curious, appreciative of art, and sensitive to beauty. Though open to experience not very open to share unconventional feelings to people that are not very close to him. Wants to keep busy doing intellectual things rather than playing a mindless game. Likes complexity and subtility, which explains his liking for puzzles (Like detectives). He likes to learn about new things, but can be cautious when trying new things. When he gets an idea in his head he would want to research it to get a better understanding of why something would or would not work before he'd go through with it. He doesn't just take anything from anyone. His opennes for experience is both in- and external. He values hearing about new ideas and theories and discussing it. He is also prepared to adjust his opinion if someone comes with a good argument. He is resourceful.

He also likes returning to things he knows he likes and is in that sense also fond of traditions. He is grateful and gets to be happy about small meaningfull things rather than big less meaningful ones. Toba can be quick with his words and likes to use big ones too, which more often makes him proud than not. He also understands and grasps new concepts or ideas of others quickly, so he enjoys learning even more. He does not like to make jokes at others expense though. Rather he makes classy or dry ones, unless he knows someone is thick skinned. He's got a vivid imagination which enables him to enjoy books better and think of theories and ideas for himself. He also likes to read the news for the sake of common knowledge and good converations.

He spends time reflecting on things he experienced to form a better opinion and to be able to rationalize. Because of all this he doesn't feel very pressured to hold certain views just to fit in because he knows why he stands for things and can express these.

 

Conscientiousness

A tendency to show self-discipline, act dutifully, and aim for achievement against measures or outside expectations. "Waiting around for something to work for you will usually never happen. If you want something to happen for you, or want a change, then DO something about it." Although he doesn't like to obsess over a task because he likes to enjoy himself too, he knows what needs to be done and acts to it. He's got plenty of self control. He likes lists, planning and punctuality, and has his way with words to let me do whatever he thinks is needed to keep me that way too for my own happiness. He is ambitious and likes to set goals for the future, even if they're just small ones. Growing is always a good thing to do. No one ever did anything great by doing the bare minimum.

His level of patience is dependend on whether he thinks more time is needed or not. If he thinks more time will result in a better outcome he can be more patient then most others.

He is brave. Life is too short to not pursue the things you want only because you're held back by fears.

He pays attention to details and sees a lot of things others don't. He for example likes to observe his surroundings to read body language or different things going on that could be of importance.

 

Extraversion

Marked by interest in and behavior directed toward others or the environment as opposed to or to the exclusion of self. Toba is middle of the road here. He does his best to stick to commitments and would never betray a friend. Sees loyalty as a necessary component of friendship. Loyalty inlolves being honest with friends, supporting them when you can,drift out of your comfort zone for them, think about how your actions might affect them, and speaking kindly about them when they're not around to hear it. Loyalty is earned over the years. He's got a good imagination and enjoys daydreaming, but is focussed outward more. Things happening in the real world always have his priority. He does things without having to be asked and takes himself further than expected to. He is modest in a way that he doesn't like to brag or put himself in a spotlight. He likes attention and praise, but rather has it comes from someone else than having to push for them to aknowledge it. He likes being around people and meeting new people and is comfortable with them. Finding out what they are like and has no shame in making a sort of game from it. He loves games (board as well as other potential competitive things), but knows when he's got to stop for something serious. He also likes to surprise, is lively, spontaneous, enthusiastic for new events, expressive and serious about what he wants or when he needs to be.

 

Agreeableness

He is strongly against racism, sexism, homophobia and all other forms of discrimination as he believes they undermine who we are as humans. He thinks it is just wrong to class somebody above another. He believes it is very important to know yourself. It can help you understand how you feel, what is the best path for you to follow and more. Everybody judges others, but do we judge ourselves. We must know our strengths and weaknesses before we consider those of others. This can avoid selfishness, ignorance and lack of sympathy. He is fair and thruthful with his judgements, and objective when needed. This allows him to read people well and see negative as well as positive traits in others and even more so himself. He is interested in people and sympathizes with their emotions if they don't go overboard and show too much weakness. He doesn't like to share all his negative emotions himself and rather tries to look at things positively. He finds happiness in the happiness of others and tries to see the good things in people while staying realistic. He is rule conscious and lives them up unless the rule is completely irrational/doesn't make sense.

 

Neurotisism

The tendency to experience negative emotions, such as anger, anxiety, or depression. He has got high tolerance for stress and tries to keep realistic, trying to find out how things can be changed positively. He is emotionally stable and is not very irritable, unless someone keeps doing the same annoying thing on purpose or unnecissaraly. Anxiousness, depression and vulnerability are also a rarity for him. If overwhelmed he will retreat and take some time to relax and get his mind off of things. Is flexible and can adjust well to new situations. He is cooperative with a bit of dominance when he obviously knows more about something. Generally avoids conflict, and likes to talk his way out rather than have thoughtless arguments that lead no where. Competitive and a sore loser and bad winner. He can take a joke at his expense since he is thick skinned and can handle negative comments, especially made by people he sees as a lot less smart then he is.

 

His purpose? To help me become a better person and have a lot of fun together. Tomorrow will be our first day of active forcing again. I'll keep you guys up to date.

[Guest Riy]

Introduction

What really is impossible though, if you think about all the amazing things in history (I know, I know. A lot is impossible, but go read 'A short history of nearly everything' - Bill Bryson. I'm reading it to Toba now and it's cool) Anyway! I welcome you in my humble PR. Here I am, now better prepared then last time.

I've done my research, wrote down the personality and created a form I've been imagining and working and researching on for quite some time. I know it may change completely, but oh well. Toba is still somewhat here I guess, we're just starting over together. Start with the beginning. That's when every hardship you'll come across will count at the end and you'll actually have a chance to win this thing.

 

His purpose? To help me become a better person and have a lot of fun together. Tomorrow will be our first day of active forcing again. I'll keep you guys up to date.

 

 

 

Dysos this is beautifully written and interesting.

Please share your experience you have after your first day of active forcing I'd love to hear how this turns out for you!

 

Cheers!