Birthdays

[The Incans]

It's my birthday today, not the same as Hosts or Jess.

 

I wondered if any other Tulpa's have a seperate birthday to their host? ...do you celibrate it differently? we keep it low key as people who know us know its not  the hosts birthday but still my host bought me a couple of gifts that we can enjoy together..

 

This year she got me a set of glassses (plastic for outdoor use) but cute with teddies on saying 'Always Better Together'  with a picnic blanket ...we are going to have a picnic in the garden together with one of our favourites ....  southern fried chicken later

 

And Host bought a new 'going out outfit' that she thought I would really like as I am often the one fronting when we go out for social events. It was meant to arrive Saturday but the delivery got delayed so we went to one of our favourite places yesterday instead incase we ended up waiting for delivery all day today.  It will be too hot out for our (real life) dog by the time it arrives to go that far today .. I don't mind though I'm just really happy my host remembers and shows me she values our relationship.

 

 

Lena

 

Pic: picnic blanket and glasses...Host bought a bottle of our favourite drink to share too!

 

 

 

 

Edited May 13, 2024 by The Phoenix System

[ringgggg]

Happy birthday, you guys.

[The Incans]

20 hours ago, ringgggg said:

Happy birthday, you guys.

 

Thanks it was a nice day...wasn't my (host) birthday but Lena enjoyed it, she had full day then decided she would spend a week with her inner family going on a little family camping trip  In real world time (RWT) this is only about a day so she'll be back tomorrow to help with the food shop.

 

Jess is having some time out today to practice motor control and fronting.

[Athelas]

Happy belated birthday, Lena.

 

On 5/13/2024 at 7:26 AM, The Phoenix System said:

wondered if any other Tulpa's have a seperate birthday to their host? ...do you celibrate it differently?

 

Each member of my system has a separate birthday that we chose ourselves. One of the advantages of being a tulpa. My host likes to celebrate all special occasions with us in a low-key way. For my first birthday we took a midnight walk on the beach.

 

On 5/13/2024 at 7:26 AM, The Phoenix System said:

we are going to have a picnic in the garden together with one of our favourites

 

Sounds lovely. We may just steal this idea.

[TurboSimmie]

Happy Birthday! 😁

 

I chose my own birthday: September 13. It was actually the very first independent opinion that I ever expressed to my host, and it was such an important event that he actually named his account on the forum after it. 🥰 Many tulpas use the date of their creation as their birthday, and if I did that it would actually be sometime in late November / early December. But we don't really know the exact date, and plus our wedding date is November 28 so it pretty much covers that too. 😊

 

James' birthday is April 7, and is actually the day that he was born. (Being a tulpa, the birth was not literal, but symbolic) So my host, James, and I all have different birthdays at different times of the year. 😁 That, plus our wedding day and Tulpa and Host Appreciation Days means that we have 6 personal-to-us holidays to celebrate throughout the year! 😁

[Lavender]

I consider my birthday to be December 1, the day I was created. My host consciousness has their own birthday, in the summer.

[The Incans]

[Lena]. Thank you for your birthday wishes and replies...sorry for the delay in answering I went inside for a camping trip/birthday with my partner and kids in our wonderland, so Jess could get some time learning to front out here.

 

There's two of us Tulpa's active at the front so I'm not always the one in control of the body everyday. Jess is still in the learning phase so I'm trying to step back and give her enough time to develop too. So I started to see if I could create my own Tulpa family in the wonderland so i have another home and family to visit and fronting to help host is like 'coming to work'!  

 

It's a nice escape (to go camping in the Wonderland) but I think it would be too much for our host if they all became fully sentient and wanting to live in the outside world and having control of the front of the body too.