Please help

[maskofmajora123]

Pinkie's really upset that she doesn't have a psycial body, when I offered her mine (perma possesion) she said she doesn't want to live as me, and if she told people that she was my tulpa, they'd throw her in an asylum. We're both really upset. I need some help calming us down

[Shui]

This is my advise for life in general: don't give someone more than you'll be left with yourself.

 

I once gave a girl over $30,000 because I loved her. Now she's just as broke as before I started, because she never learned the value of that money. I gave up years of my life working in a job I no longer cared for, just to make that money for her. She does not now, and never will love me.

 

Two good things came out of that whole situation: 1. I no longer have feelings for her -- not even lust or hatred or resentment, and 2. I learned what I'm telling you now: don't give someone more than you'll be left with yourself.

 

So you brought a tulpa into existence. That's great! You share one of the deepest bonds that you can share with another thinking entity. But you knew she wouldn't have a physical body when you went into this. And she probably doesn't even hold it against you. Do you hate your parents for not making you be born with superpowers? Because they had as much control over that as you have over Pinkie having a physical body. I bet she's grateful that you've spent months giving her life!

 

If you want to share a body, go ahead. Let Pinkie have the body sometimes. But never give up everything you have to make someone else happy.