Reaching wonderland at night

[Sonez]

I have been trying for a couple months now but no matter what I try or what my tulpa suggests, I can't seem to get to the location. I have a wonderland that I force to and the place is always the same. I have tried thinking about it before falling asleep and I have tried talking to regular people in the dream to see if they would have any idea on how to get there but I get nothing. There was one time when I was able to hear my tulpa clearly in my dream and they were directing me but I woke up and I wasn't able to replicate that moment again. Any suggestions?

[Shui]

There's actually a book about this: Psychic Dreamwalking: Explorations at the Edge of Self, by Michelle Belanger. I know, new-agey title, and most of the book is exactly what you'd expect. But there's one chapter on creating a "dream haven" that sounds like exactly what you're looking for.

 

Unfortunately this is one of my many tulpa-related books that I don't have access to, so I can't type up a quote. Google Books doesn't have the chapter I want either.

 

A dream haven is a little bit different from a wonderland. People often say not to design too much of a wonderland, just to allow it to arise spontaneously. With a dream haven though, you want to build up everything in exquisite detail.

 

You should know the shape of every tree, the placement of every rock, the smell of the place, the sounds -- everything. Build it all up in your mind so that you can see it vividly when you close your eyes.

 

Once you get to this level, you'll be able to visit it in dreams at will.

 

At least, that's how I remember the book talking about it. It's not something I've personally done, but it's worth a try.