How to be sure I'm actually getting a response

[infiniderm]

So I've been at it for about a month now and have being doing it most of whenever I can, all that stuff. But what I'm worried with is that if when I get a response (basically just mind-voicing back to me.. i think thats what you call it) I'm not sure its her. Most of the time, the answers are what I'd want to here, but I had no conscious intention to answer back to myself. And the answers like this aren't very clear (muddy in my head, if that makes any sense) as well as being simple answers, nothing significant or complete identifiable as coming from her (like, "Was that her? Whats that you? Yes...").

 

Is there anyway to know if I'm getting actual responses? I don't get head pressure or anything like that.. I'm just confused by getting responses this early, from what I've read that usually doesn't happen very soon. I was getting responses after the first week pretty much.

[Guest Anonymous]

A month isn't much in terms of tulpamancy. You should give it more time, lower your expectations. It just sounds like your mind forming those responses, happens with many people at the first stages of tulpamancing. Utterly bad though, because in reality it's not your tulpa if all it can do is answer "yes", especially considering that's what YOU want to hear.

 

I think that this is related to your expectations. Give it some time, really.

[Ashmo]

A month isn't much in terms of tulpamancy. You should give it more time, lower your expectations. It just sounds like your mind forming those responses, happens with many people at the first stages of tulpamancing. Utterly bad though, because in reality it's not your tulpa if all it can do is answer "yes", especially considering that's what YOU want to hear.

 

I think that this is related to your expectations. Give it some time, really.

 

The beginning of tulpamancy is your mind forming responses though. It's a process of separating one consciousness into two. It's not really a bad thing, unless you focus on it being negative. Some tulpa can only do very few things in the start. With them only being a month old, the only response they might be able to give is "yes" with out being able to say "no" along with it.

 

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Also, not everyone gets head pressure in the beginning. Or at all.

 

Honestly it sounds like you are on the right track. The best thing to do is treat it as your tulpa, because it's the attention that makes it real. Eventually they begin to feel more and more real.