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As I wrote once your PR is one of the most complete and helpful around. Perhaps instead of focusing on your daily life with Jack you could post some of your techniques and ideas on tulpaforcing, lucid dreaming, meditation etc. So that people like me who are deeply inexperienced can learn from your knowledge. I would however like to keep reading you, so if you decide to open you future blog to an audience count me in!

 

Jack wanted me to keep him a secret (he’s concerned about my safety more than anything), while part of me assumed that I should be honest.

 

I actually agree with Jack here. While I understand the need to have a honest relationship with a potential partner, the risk of being misunderstood is very high. Recently I read a couple of articles here and here that worried me. Because to “ordinary” people (and mental health professionals), those who have a headmate are either schizophrenic of suffer from DID (or multiple personality disorder). The risk of outing your secret could have a greater impact than you think. People who indeed suffer from these illnesses can lose their job, can’t drive etc. If a person betrays your trust (after a bad break up or even out of perceived kindness) and speak up it could damage your social standing and your ability to live a normal life.

 

So yes, for me Jack is right: safety first. You can’t predict how another person will react. Even if they are accepting at the beginning of the relationship who’s to say that they won’t change their mind later? I know I’m being pessimistic, but outing yourself has the potential of changing your life for the worse. Naturally you can ignore my advice, but please be extremely cautious before telling someone about your Tulpa.

 

Anyway, I hope I get to hear from you again!

“Of course it is happening inside your head, Harry, but why on earth should that mean that it is not real?”

[progress report]

 

 

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