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  2. ejbrandy

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    Why do u people want this? D.I.D. is something I have to control 24 7 , it's something I would definitely not try to get. I don't understand.
  3. Doing physical work (which can include going on walks if I walk briskly) tends to set my mood and mind to neutral - it's not really a positive state to me, but it's certainly not negative, which to some people/some times can be a large improvement Not sure what all you could do to accomplish that without being outside though. It'd be great if you had a way to get somewhere less public quickly. You have a bike right? Is it so bad to slow down and look around before each intersection? (While riding on the side of the road if it's big single-way with no sidewalk, or in the middle if it's small and no sidewalk I suppose)
  4. I'm torn. I really want to engage you more and find a way to ease your mind, but am hesitant if socialising causes you spikes of distress. First things first, don't ever treat such interactions as an obligation. If you feel "overloaded," I would suggest shutting down the computer, sitting down in a comfortable chair and just relax. Focus on your breathing, preferably in a dark room with little in the way of much else. If you can't tolerate complete or even partial darkness, look out a window and fixate on something benign, like a tree or a distant house. Keep breathing, in and out, until you can hear only that. It's too warm outside to use a weighted blanket, but if you must, lie down and sleep. If I'm scared, hurt, having a flashback, angry or depressed, I work myself into a mental numbness and rest. My body gets to loosen its tension and my subconscious resolves some of the underlying grief. Try it sometime. We're okay. Am treating Twi to a yummy frozen drink, ger favourite: a strawberry frappucino. She tells me she wish she could share, and give you a biiiig hug. (emphasis hers :0) )
  5. Glad you'll at least be okay eventually. 😊 I just wish I knew a way help.
  6. i think so it's just like our brain can get so overloaded with trying to be social or interact for some reason, and it will over think things and sometimes spin out of control to the point it physically hurts might be why i usually post the most, i usually think the least lol, but i feel doubt too now i hope it feels better soon. we can't do anything right now, so we don't know what to do how are you?
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  8. Linda: ditto. Shaula: つ つ つ つ (つ✿⁠^⁠‿⁠^⁠)つ つ つ
  9. Will you be okay?
  10. canid girl and fish girl needs love so brain can stop hurty
  11. A canid’s love
  12. our system is over 50% canine/canid related only inadequacy remains me too
  13. ……There are, in fact, people who dislike fireworks. Like us. And we can occasionally be canine, shapeshifting is fun sometimes, but I wouldn't say that we are dogs.
  14. "I'm not a fan of fireworks" is a phrase that would only be spoken by dogs
  15. Oh, I should have googled fancy words.
  16. Usually not, it may depend on how severe it is but normally encouraging any sort of mental attachments is dangerous for people with chaotic thinking who can't always tell real from imaginary. Some people with DID do practice tulpamancy and the community's techniques and mindsets may help them manage their system life better, but I imagine professional help by a competent therapist would be better in a lot of cases. I'm neither a professional nor that knowledgeable about DID though, so better to hear from someone who is
  17. Huh? Authorial intent? She was referring to me talking about my dislike of non-canon stuff
  18. Matt has talked a bit about dj’ing, but for a long time I’ve thought about picking it up myself. There’s an art to finding songs that mesh well enough with each other to crossfade The best deejays have actually good music taste, so it makes me a little less confident about starting out. I suppose dj’ing more helps them get to that point
  19. G Edit: typing fail. 😅 Edit 2: good morning, everyone. 😊 Edit 3: that's pretty cool, Bre! 😁
  20. it's interesting the similarities in playing techniques between different instruments. learning to play the drums has helped me with learning piano in many ways that i didn't expect
  21. Lutonium isotopes
  22. they annihilate when they collide with lumis
  23. Antilumis, you say.
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