Intercourse?

[ProfPhoenix]

Okay, so I know you're not supposed to make a Tulpa just for sex, but is it wrong to have it? I don't plan to but a close friend of mine did and I was curious. (Keep in mind, in this scenario the Tulpa agrees and is ok with it)

[Guest amber5885]

Yeah it's fine. Just like consensual sex with a human as long as both parties are willing and happily participating it's fine.

[Linkzelda]

We’re not the ones that own your bodies, your sexuality, your private, subjective experience, nor your ability to make a judgment call with them to reach a compromise. Work it out together, and maybe being aware that it’s not only about just being okay with it, but maybe being aware of the potential exploitations that may ensue if either side in the relationship tries to capitalize on those experiences.

 

Regardless of whether or not the action will be right or wrong, is that not some aspect of love? Asking us if it’s wrong to have it is, IMO, just giving up your freedom to assess yourself with them, and to find an inward justification and solace towards what you want to do with them.

[FallFamily]

Tri:

 

One additional thing to keep in mind. A tulpa must be independent enough to make decisions on their own and know their wants and needs on their own accord independent of the thoughts, wants, etc. of the host. Also, there needs to be no reason to fear repercussions if they say no. If those things are true, then a tulpa can actually give consent. If not, then no. The first one is basically they need to be developed enough to be able to make such a choice. The second one is that it has to be a real and safe choice for them.

[Linkzelda]

And if the first analogue with degrees of sentience for having a foundation to make their own decisions, predispositions, etc., being part of justifying if the activities can be engaged is too much of a challenge OP, then IMO, there's always your dreams to revel in. Especially lucid dreaming because it's really not surprising for people to have sexual, fleeting, and transitory experiences with dream characters. And to say if one has to be held accountable for transitory experiences with dream characters, and have to consider the welfare of a dream character whom may dissipate the moment the dreamer wakes up is a matter of disposition as well; hello question begging, though, when the tables have turned when one wants to further their propensity in the existence of a tulpa in their quotidian lifestyle.

 

In other words, if you can't feel secure and assured with how you want to expand your relationship with a tulpa, your imagination isn't constrained on just that; it's a bit more nuanced and grandiose than that, IMO.

[arcanemagic]

As long as it's consensual between you two, and there is absolutely no doubts about whether is is, go for it. We're not the morality police and even if we were we'd be giving you the same answers. The problem is really when people force themselves onto their tulpas or create tulpas specifically for sex. Consensual sex between two people is always ok(as long as it's not something like "I'll give you kids some candy to lick something*creepy pedo laugh*". But yeah, it's fine if you both wanna do it. :p