How have Tulpas changed you?

[FadingSpectrum]

Najere: It doesn't matter whether I'm looking at the soulbonding community or the tulpa community. Created headmates usually seem to change the "host" for the better, or at least help set them on the right path and comfort them. I hear a lot about hosts getting nudged by their tulpa/soulbonds to take care of their health more. You know, eat better, get some exercise, that sort of small help.

In our own case, Fade admitted that Troy forced helped her fix her bad posture. And, she doesn't skip breakfast anymore.

 

On a psychological level, we can do an awful lot as well. Just give another viewpoint, for example.

I asked Fade, and she agreed to let me talk about this. "In vague terms". At one point in her life, she was a passive-aggressive bigoted dick in many ways. It took the responsibility of nine other beings who disagreed with her and each other in various ways to make her realize she thought in a lot of dickish ways.

 

Fade: It also made me feel less crazy because I was no longer arguing in hateful ways with myself. I was discussing things in a civil manner with head friends! ...Which only felt marginally less nuts. Still, it was something.

I feel even less nuts since I've learned that there are other people out there experiencing the same phenomena as me! Or, a similar phenomena.

 

Najere: Shush, shush! Tulpa week!

 

Fade: You're a soulbond. : D

 

Najere: Hush up anyway. X)

Point is, having people you can agree to disagree with is a good thing, regardless of if they are in the physical world, or your head.

 

Olive: Hai!

And giving snuggles and cooldown hugs is also v/ good thing. Once or twice, people is say, "hey, people in head is not real" to Fade when we is talk online. Shrug! If we real, then good. Fine. But Troy-Troy pointed out to me that even if not real, still is good for host, no? Helps Fade feel better and not go into slumps and neglect things b/c is feeling bad. And the rest of shit Najere says. He says much shit, some is wise, some is just shit.

 

Dunno about other head friends, but is satisfied with make things better for one person. And other peoples in physical world that can interact with positively! :3