Please help.

[DuffMcWhalen]

My Tulpa wants me to kill people. She wasn't always like this, things started changing a couple years ago after I took her virgnity. I didn't think much of it when she gradually wanted me to get rough with her while we were intimate. A little choking seemed harmless. Pinning her down and slapping her during it seemed harmless. The more we've had sex the more Lilly started changing.

 

Five years ago I had a dream with pretty Goth girl in it and when I woke up she was standing in my room and she's followed me wherever I went since. She didn't start talking until a month, even then it was only a little, after six months she talked as much as anyone else. I didn't know what she was until a year later when one of my stoner buddies mentioned Tulpas.

 

She's gone from very sweet and innocent to begging me to kill people while she masturbates to it. What do I do?

[Guest Anonymous]

This is pretty obviously a troll but it is entertaining so I am posting on the thread.  

 

I think you should talk to your S and M violent tulpa Goth girly and just let her know that killing peoples is illegal.  Maybe you guys can make up dream characters in the wonderland and kill them?  Then no harm done and she will get her jollies.  Uhm do you have any pictures of your hot hyper sexed Goth girly tulpa?  Just wondering.

[DuffMcWhalen]

I assure you I'm very serious. I've Tried telling her it's wrong but then she gets sexual to change the subject. I really thought some one else could tell me the right way to approach this.

 

Edit - As far as dreams go, Lilly is the only thing to ever manifest and it wasn't on purpose. Her presence is very strong as my cat can also see her, I've read cats have second sight and can sense spirit beings in ways humans can't. I firmly believe that is true now.

 

Also The best I can give you is ms paint stick figures. I can't draw for the life of me but she thinks it's cute and endearing.

[Guest Anonymous]

Well, certainly don't kill anyone (as in a real human being), that would be bad.  Honestly, if it is some sort of internal day dream sex fantasy that no else is aware of, I don't see a problem with it.  That's because I am kindof a weird ass pervo myself though and sometimes secretly "evil."  

 

Does she possess or switch with you?  That might be a issue here.

 

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[DuffMcWhalen]

She doesn't posses me, we like being seperate entities and would never blur that line. It's actually a shame she can't interact with the PC since Lilly can put into words why she likes these things better than I can. Even though I can feel it when she touches me and the cat seems to feel it when she pets him theres still clear limits to how she can interact.

 

At least twice a week She wants to watch A Serbian film with me while we have mutual masturbation. I've cut back on watching it while on drugs even though it's a good trip for me because when I go overboard Lilly can feel it too. So at least the two of us have some kind of boundaries. Even if it's cutting back on drugs for her sake.

[Guest Anonymous]

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Cutting back on the drugs while masturbating sounds like a healthy life decision.  Masturbating only twice a week doesn't sound too Abby Normal.  I think most men probly stroke the the dinkle at least that much.  

 

Our cat can't detect me, I am jealous of that!  I can pet the kitty through my hostie, or that is sense what he feels when he pets her.  I don't really possess though as I don't move his body.  I just kinda exist there in his mind in the day dream environment hanging out and looking cute and pretty.  

 

Your tulpa is intense.

[tulpa001]

This does seem obvious trolling. But in case it isn't:

 

I hope you have a strong moral compass, and are not actually considering this act.

 

She is not telling you to kill people. You are telling yourself to kill people. If you continue to have problems with these thoughts, talk to a psychologist about intrusive thoughts.

 

Note: This is an approach for dealing with it. It tends to work even if it is inaccurate.

 

PS: The drugs aren't helping.

[Guest Anonymous]

PS: The drugs aren't helping.

 

^yeah this

[Tewi]

This is pretty obviously a troll but it is entertaining so I am posting on the thread.

 

Hey hey, this is serious stuff. There was enough context it wasn't totally ridiculous, the first sentence was a stylistic choice to get the point across. And to a lesser extent (not quite asking you to kill people..) this sort of thing definitely happens in real life too. You shouldn't be too quick to disregard them, because it can be difficult to talk about this stuff in the first place.

 

 

You need to draw borderlines between recreational activities and what is actually necessary to maintain a healthy lifestyle and conduct in society. "Fun and games" can only go so far before they're outranked by the importance of everyday life. I'm sorry if her needs for stimulation are rising over time, there's a desensitization effect in that like in everything else. Too much junk food, too much porn, too much indulgence in anything. The only way to combat that is to stop allowing yourself to fulfill every little desire. Sitting down with a large bag of chips and eating 'til you can't anymore, for example, will lead to problems. You need to limit your portions, not only to maintain health but to maintain the pleasure in eating them in the first place. The same goes for sex and porn honestly. Too much of a "good" thing leads to wanting more and more to satisfy the same need, similar in effect to many drugs that end up killing dopamine receptors. Even though you want it at the time, limiting yourself will make whatever the indulgence is more special and often more healthy when you do actually do it.

 

I hope that's applicable anyway. But even if it's not, the line still needs to be drawn between recreational enjoyment and serious life matters. Allowing that overindulgence can lead to an empty bank account, diabetes, or apparently killing someone. Keep this perspective in mind and realize desires for satisfaction are outranked by your own well being, and hopefully others' too.

 

If she won't accept that, you'll just have to exercise your power over who ultimately makes the decisions. But hopefully you can make her understand. Just make clear, for example, the harm that may come to you both should you act on her desires. Short term satisfaction will quickly be diminished by its lasting life consequences.

[DuffMcWhalen]

Okay Good news, I showed her this thread and now that she has seen some one else say killing is wrong she's saying she'll only want to watch those kind of things from instead of acting on it. Thank you.