Voice and responses in general

[Romm]

You may be over-estimating the amount of time you really spend with your Tulpa (tulpaforcing).

Well yes, I was distracted on occasions so I can't say I faithfully forced everyday.

while I may not have the Magic-Wand, i can tell you that Having a Wonderland helps, and tulpaforcing in this realm will get you far, you need to have faith/ get rid of your doubts. and your tulpa will be clear.

I've started with wonderland, but I couldn't get anything good out of it, so I decided to leave it until I get constant response and just use black void with some stuff thrown in when I need. My visualization is another thing which not going as good as I would like to though. That was another thing which I left somewhat vague until better times.

 

About being faithful, well I mostly don't have any doubts and keep staying in aware state every day, so I'm not sure what to do.

 

The OP said himself he doesn't force often and whenever he does he gets discouraged. That is probably the cause for the delay in development.

 

As for the random voices you hear as you're about to fall asleep, like rough male voices and stuff, I've had that happen before. However, it sounds more like hypogognic (sp?) voices rather than a tupper. But I could be wrong.

That may be true, but again, I don't have much of doubts, it's more like I slack with sessions constantly.

Actually now this whole discussion makes me really question my progress. :(

 

I guess I'll have to stick with more regular forcing for now.

[Aeiou]

Question about voices, is there any fullproof way to ascertain if it's just my mind giving me the answer i want to a question or actually my tulpa?

 

I am really kind of struggling to determine if the answer i got from a question in thought was me or my tulpa, i know there's a habit of saying if you aren't sure then it was probably your tulpa; But is that always the case?

 

I'm just getting so unsure of my myself that's it's absolutely crazy.

[Phi]

Question about voices, is there any fullproof way to ascertain if it's just my mind giving me the answer i want to a question or actually my tulpa?

 

I am really kind of struggling to determine if the answer i got from a question in thought was me or my tulpa, i know there's a habit of saying if you aren't sure then it was probably your tulpa; But is that always the case?

 

I'm just getting so unsure of my myself that's it's absolutely crazy.

 

If you can get them to say something while you say something aloud, it's more likely to be the tulpa just because of how hard it is to say something aloud and say something different in your head at the same time.

 

A good rule of thumb is that if it is in the voice of your tulpa, assume it is your tulpa.

[Lolimancer]

Question about voices, is there any fullproof way to ascertain if it's just my mind giving me the answer i want to a question or actually my tulpa?

 

I am really kind of struggling to determine if the answer i got from a question in thought was me or my tulpa, i know there's a habit of saying if you aren't sure then it was probably your tulpa; But is that always the case?

 

I'm just getting so unsure of my myself that's it's absolutely crazy.

 

When i'm unsure, i ask the headpressure (which works quite well - at least for me - with yes/no questions and stuff). That's pretty hard to fake i think.