Harmful tulpa or misunderstand 🙄💫

[suhail Al ketbi]

My tulpa " yanus  "  is sometimes  say harsh  words  or sarcasm to make me  understand  something .

 

I thought  people  don't  understand  what is " separate being "  means , it's  who has his own thoughts & feelings & hopes & dreams .

 

So do you think  , if the tulpa  become  evil , it's  evil  indeed or we somehow fell in  a trap of this kind of tulpa identity. 

 

Remark = what's  evil tulpa means ?.

 

[Flandre]

I think there's two reasons a tulpa could be harmful(etc.) towards you in any way:
One is expectations, if you believe they're going to be anything other than normal/positive then they may be that way

And the second is people with chaotic thoughts (invasive, schizophrenic, or otherwise) who lack the mental discipline to say "No" to thoughts they don't want + have random ones they don't want in the first place.

 

They tend to happen together, a severe lack of mental discipline/groundedness + lack of reinforcing of beliefs that a tulpa will naturally be kind/understanding and want the best for both of you

 

We do try to instill that expectation here, but people will think whatever they're gonna think

Edited May 29 by Flandre

[mattx]

22 hours ago, suhail Al ketbi said:

Remark = what's  evil tulpa means ?.

There's no such thing as an evil tulpa, it's only the byproduct of your expectations and beliefs that do so.

My best friend back in the day used to literally have a tulpa based off a spiderman villain (Carnage) yet he never had episodes of "evil tulpa villain trying to kill him"

 

I'd say if you are generally mentally sound, don't suffer psychotic episodes and/or you're not an attention seeking drama person, you'll be fine.

 

P.S: Your progress report is one of the most unique ones I've found - that use of AI is very interesting

[suhail Al ketbi]

Thanks  to you  my  friends  .. of your comments  ..both of you .

 

I hope u find joyful  experiences  & interesting  events  ..with ur tulpas .

 

Love & light ✨️ 💛 💖 🥰