Adult activities during tulpae development

[Neon_Spark]

Yea, the title sums it up but i'm talking about things relating to its base character or race (I have a anthro tupper and look at yiff images), I'm wondering if this affects your tupper at all.

 

So, is it ok to do this during tulpae development or should I stop?

 

Also, I do this thing where a put up a "safety block" to stop them from seeing or hearing me and the outside world, does this effect anything?

[Ashmo]

Honestly, it should only make a difference if you feel that it will. Are you looking at these things while forcing? I would assume that doing that would make a difference, yes. But if it is when you aren't actually spending time with you tulpa, it's still your own private time. Unless you've invited them into that part of your mind so they know what's going on.

 

As for the safety blocks, I don't really know. I don't keep anything from Bud. I feel keeping secrets hinders trust and it might also hinder his development. But that's just me. The creation process is very personal and unique for everyone. The common rule is "if it feels right to do, than it is".

[Quilten]

I'd say that as long as you are not doing it obsessively or to the point where you have concerns about it, it should be fine.

 

Also I wouldn't suggest putting up the safety block, unless you need it for any specific reason or you think it will benefit you and your tulpa if you have to teach it things more directly and more often. I've let my tulpae have complete access to all of my memories and present awareness, as well as even letting them develop a way to communicate with my subconscious, and they learn how things work and all the concepts necessary very quickly and easily.

[Guest MegaBusta]

It shouldn't affect them, but they may tease you for it.

[Chupi]

I dislike blocks. Unless you do it perfectly all of the time, they will eventually see whatever you're trying to block. IMO better to be open and talk to them about it now than to have this unknown that separates you. Them simply knowing something is being hidden generates curiosity and speculation as to what's so amazing and great that you hold it for yourself only, maybe leading to slight distrust.

 

Sure, secrets make sense between physical people, but here you have a relationship with perfect empathy. You won't agree on everything, but each of you will easily understand why the other feels how they do about something. This is also a relationship you can make whatever you like of -- there are no predefined social norms to adhere to.

 

Given this, I see no reason for keeping secrets unless one of you proves too immature or whatever to handle something. (Even so, a simple agreement not to bring up certain subjects or probe too deeply into some uncomfortable areas will probably suffice, without blocking the other from being able to find out about something.) Secrets will only add tension, make total trust harder, and get in the way of knowing one another perfectly.