Help Me, Please!

[Mage_Of_Cats]

Lately, I've been uninterested in tulpamancy. It may have to do with the fact that I am (seriously) one of the worst tulpamancers EVER.

 

I worked on Jake (and a spontaneous tulpa called Anne) for three months (Anne was spontaneous and I've only worked on her for a few weeks yet she is WAY further than Jake.) but I never got visualization down or... ANYTHING. And Anne, who is way more developed than Jake - I just mentioned that - isn't visualized properly either. I don't even get emotional responses from them. Either one, that is.

 

And, I believe due to that, I have become uninterested in tulpamancy. I find myself not wanting to do it AT ALL and it worries me. I do try to tulpamance every once in a while, but it all ends with 'What's the point?' and I hope my tulpae don't/won't hate me - are they even conscious? - but I try and I try and I don't do anything.

 

Is it because I'm too young or something?

Is there a correlation between the inability to create tulpae and intelligence or something?

Am I just a terrible tulpamancer that has some sort of inability to do what he should be able to do easily?

Or is it because I have recently fallen in love with a friend of mine?! D;

 

Any suggestions would really help me, as I have told myself to NEVER EVER EVER NEVER! Give up on my tulpae - they're sentient, or might be. If they weren't, I'd not know, and, therefore, it'd be no different. I can't just leave them to waste away.

 

Please help me... D;

[HydesLittleOne]

I feel exactly like you do, and I've only been at this for four days. :( When I do get something, any kind of results, I start to think that I'm getting my hopes up and that it's nothing that has anything to do with my Tulpa, but I really, really want to believe that it is Hyde.

 

I just want constantly to know that I'm on the right track.

[Evial]

Its great that you have determination. Probaly one of the most important things you can have in tulpamancy, that and belief.

 

Your tulpa's will except you for whoever you are they can see into your thought and understand what you are going through. I to was just like that when I was creating my tulpa. I never got any responses and I was worried that I was just talking to nothing. So I deicided to visualise myself in a dark room full of all my negativity about everything abotu my tulpas. Then I visualised my tulpa there with me. I just looked at her and she looked at me smiling back, I lost focus on everything around the place apart from her. It made me feel warm in the inside. This was before she was vocal thou.

 

Just dont give up and believe in yourself and your tulpa's :D

[Quilten]

I think that all you can probably do is keep forcing, actively and passively, whenever you can. I can tell you that something that keeps me constantly interested is the science behind the whole genre of tulpae and related topics. If you need help focusing, I suggest that you look at some of the other guides about that and consider constantly trying to keep the mindset that your tulpae are making progress. Remember, they are as real as you want to make them.

 

EDIT: A note, you cannot make tulpae as real as you want them to be, seeing as how im-position works only internally in the host. Just a nitpick thing, but I hate not specifying, if you haven't noticed.

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

Welp, might as well get back into the swing of things here... been away for how long now? XD Idk, I'mma start being active again =w= Anyways~~ Shouldn't this be in the Questions and Answers forum? o.o

 

Lately, I've been uninterested in tulpamancy. It may have to do with the fact that I am (seriously) one of the worst tulpamancers EVER.

 

I highly doubt that.

 

I worked on Jake (and a spontaneous tulpa called Anne) for three months (Anne was spontaneous and I've only worked on her for a few weeks yet she is WAY further than Jake.) but I never got visualization down or... ANYTHING. And Anne, who is way more developed than Jake - I just mentioned that - isn't visualized properly either. I don't even get emotional responses from them. Either one, that is.

 

And, I believe due to that, I have become uninterested in tulpamancy. I find myself not wanting to do it AT ALL and it worries me. I do try to tulpamance every once in a while, but it all ends with 'What's the point?' and I hope my tulpae don't/won't hate me - are they even conscious? - but I try and I try and I don't do anything.

 

What do you do when you tulpamance exactly? I mean, a lotta people find active tulpaforcing boring, I do all the freaking time, why I do more passive forcing.

 

Is it because I'm too young or something?

Is there a correlation between the inability to create tulpae and intelligence or something?

Am I just a terrible tulpamancer that has some sort of inability to do what he should be able to do easily?

Or is it because I have recently fallen in love with a friend of mine?! D;

 

Let's see, if you're old enough to type on a computer no, if you're asking if it's because you're too stupid no and i doubt you're even that stupid, no tulpamancing's different for everyone and takes different amounts of time for everyone, and no, how does that even affect anything. Unless it's been like, distracting you, in which case maybe.

 

Any suggestions would really help me, as I have told myself to NEVER EVER EVER NEVER! Give up on my tulpae - they're sentient, or might be. If they weren't, I'd not know, and, therefore, it'd be no different. I can't just leave them to waste away.

 

Just. Keep. Forcing. Wasn't there some dude here who forced for nine months without getting anything? Idk, point being, if you've just been doing the same thing the entire time, try something different. If you find yourself continuously doubting yourself, either ignore it or acknowledge it and move on, don't let it be some sort of block you can't get through. The time for people to make tulpas varies by a LOT, so don't get discouraged. Don't give up if you reaaallllyyyyy want a tulpa. Just talk to them as if they're sentient. Etc, etc, etc... basically just keep trying.

[Guest Anonymous]

Lately, I've been uninterested in tulpamancy. It may have to do with the fact that I am (seriously) one of the worst tulpamancers EVER.

 

I see most tulpaforcers say this. You're not the only one.

 

And, I believe due to that, I have become uninterested in tulpamancy. I find myself not wanting to do it AT ALL and it worries me.

It sounds to me like you're looking for an excuse not to do it. This is entirely voluntary and if you are not motivated you shouldn't do it. Many people seem to want an "easy way out" or a "cool trick to make things happen faster" or a "hack" of sorts. The only way to make things happen faster is through being consistent, and forcing as much as you can. If you don't want to tulpaforce, why are you doing it? Because you want tulpas? Then you'll have to force.

 

'What's the point?'

Why did you start tulpaforcing? What did you have in mind when you started? That's the point.

 

I hope my tulpae don't/won't hate me

Why would they? If you legitimately care for them but have trouble forcing consistently they will understand. My host doesn't force consistently, but I know that it's not that he doesn't care. Your tulpas know what you think. If your intentions are in the right place, they will understand.

 

are they even conscious?

What is consciousness and how do you judge whether something is or isn't conscious? Judge your tulpas the same way.

 

but I try and I try and I don't do anything.

I'm going to assume that by "don't do anything" you mean "don't make progress". Thunderclap took one year to get his tulpa vocal. The point is in being consistent, not in waiting for progress to appear. You should assume that if you are consistent, you will eventually make progress. Not being consistent will only make it take longer and make things more frustrating. You should lower your expectations, or even better - expect nothing at all.

 

Is it because I'm too young or something?

No.

Is there a correlation between the inability to create tulpae and intelligence or something?

No.

Am I just a terrible tulpamancer that has some sort of inability to do what he should be able to do easily?

Whoever told you this was easy was lying. The practice itself may be easy, but the patience and time required to make progress is often very burdening on tulpaforucers.

Or is it because I have recently fallen in love with a friend of mine?! D;

What does this have to do with anything?

 

 

Just stop worrying. That is the worst thing you can do. My host worries all the time, and frankly, it's annoying. Keep forcing until you see results.

[Mage_Of_Cats]

Okay...

 

I suppose that I can now tulpamance much more than I have been able to in the past - my grandparents have left and I have the house to myself - so I think I will be able to do this, finally, after three months. Le sigh.

 

I'm getting the idea that I really should just sit down and concentrate on tulpamancy for an hour or two after school per day.

That would work much better.

 

Thanks.

 

And I'll be offline for the better part of every month from now on (I think,) but this is subject to change. T_T

Oh well. Thanks again.

 

**And yes, '...fallen in love with a friend of mine?!' does distract me. A lot. Bye now.

[Zer0.iNSaNiTY]

**And yes, '...fallen in love with a friend of mine?!' does distract me. A lot. Bye now.

 

lol well I'd help you there, 'cept I'm a master at ignoring things so the only advice i could give is ignore it ^^;