tulpa showing up in lucid dreams.

[Bewoulf]

Hi guys need some advices from expert lucid dreamers.

 

I'm very good at lucid dreaming, but I can't seem to find my tulpa in my dreams.

 

I usually try to look for my tulpa, but in the end I find random ppl or no one at all. But I think it might be a visualization problem.

 

But there was 2 times I think I had some degree of interaction.

 

Once I had a very short dream where I hugged someone and I'm pretty sure it was Niu, but I didn't saw anything, which made me think it wasn't a dream at all, but a very strong interaction. The other time I dreaming about trailing on a dirty path on a bamboo jungle, and as always I was trying to look for Niu. I don't remember exactly what happened in the dream, but next thing she was right behind me, I could sense and hear her footsteps, but as I was turning around to look at her, I woke up.

 

On 'normal' dreams she would never show up. Kinda like IRL at my level.

 

I though lucid dreaming would give me a easier time with my forcing, but it seems to be the other way around. So, any advice? How do you guys do it?

[xtar]

Practice 'wishing'/'summoning' for things in your dream and build yourself up to being able to make your tulpa appear. Ex wish for your favorite food once lucid, it should suddenly appear after a few tries. Once you get something like that down try other things and eventually tulpa. Also, part of it is expectation.

 

You don't look for things you want, you take them (or wish for them to show up in the case of a dream).

[Bewoulf]

Thanks, Both answers were very helpful. I"ll look at your guide too! I knew those existed, but I wnated to share my thoughts anyway.

[Chupi]

Summary of user-requested deleted post:

 

Trying to look for your tulpa in a dream doesn't seem to work very well. If they have trouble appearing in your field of view, have them appear outside it. Assume they're behind you already, and look back. Also try reaching out behind you without looking and ask them to hold your hand.

 

Tulpas often seem to look and act different in dreams, and may appear as some other dream character. If you think a dream character is them, assume it is for the moment.