My tulpa abandoned me... Did he?

[Megz-moo]

So I was making this tulpa a while back. I was getting pretty far and I ws getting urges to call him Jakob etc so I assumed tags were going well. However, I would stop tulpaforcing for like a day or so and then I would apologise to Jakob, and promise to spend more time with him b the same thing would happen again. And them one day, I just couldn't feel a connection anymore. I stopped tulpaforcing for a few weeks and started to visit my wonderland more to search for him but nothing- I'm pretty sure he's gone. Can anyone give me their THIUGHTS on whether tulas can actually leave you? I felt so lost without him

[sushi]

Can he actually leave? No. He's still somewhere in your mind. But this is actually pretty common where a tulpa will seem to disappear. Try writing him a letter. I've heard that often helps.

[Guest amber5885]

Tulpas can't actually leave you. Your tulpa is incredibly young you need to be patient with it. Also, and just a friendly note you have kind I posed this question four different ways in the last day or two so please watch the question spam

[raymond13557]

he is still around, sometimes snow (nina) likes to just "vanish" for a while sometimes i worry about her and more often than not i just know she is looking for a new form.. she seems to fancy bats, pandas, and red pandas at the moment.