Tulpa Love

[conflictedebola]

I wouldn't say Howl and I are in a "relationship" per say (we are kind of domestic sometimes though) but there is so much love sharing in this house, Jesus H. Christ. There's me and my boyfriend, Howl and my boyfriend, Howl and Ran (my boyfriend's tulpa), sometimes Ran and me and then whatever me and Howl are. To be honest, sometimes I forget monogamy is a thing.

Also, I wouldn't automatically assume that you'll never be able to tell someone about your tulpa. Some people are more open minded and even enthusiastic about stuff like that than you'd imagine.

[FallFamily]

Tri:

 

I haven't made my tulpa yet either and I'm thinking about it. And he is going to be Dark Link. ^-^ And he's going to be my lover. I've planned for him to be my one and only, ...

 

Making a tulpa just to be your lover is not right. There is no consent. Even if in principle you offer a choice, they will know why you made them and will thus be pressured and possibly afraid. That is not consent at all. Also, a tulpa should never have to fear their host.

 

 

I wouldn't say Howl and I are in a "relationship" per say (we are kind of domestic sometimes though) but there is so much love sharing in this house, Jesus H. Christ. There's me and my boyfriend, Howl and my boyfriend, Howl and Ran (my boyfriend's tulpa), sometimes Ran and me and then whatever me and Howl are. To be honest, sometimes I forget monogamy is a thing.

Also, I wouldn't automatically assume that you'll never be able to tell someone about your tulpa. Some people are more open minded and even enthusiastic about stuff like that than you'd imagine.

 

Our relationships with our partner system are not quite like that, but like you we forget that monogamy is a thing.