Darkdutch February 28, 2015 February 28, 2015 Okay I don't know if this is stupid to ask or not but here it goes. Do tulpas get jealous like if you have a boyfriend on the real world and in wonderland your romantic with a Tulpa does that like cause issues? I haven't even made a Tulpa yet I was just very curious. Also I was curious if you have a relationship with your Tulpa that is romantic like to what extent do you take that relationship? Thanks for the answers :)
Darcmanish February 28, 2015 February 28, 2015 Depents on the character of your tulpa. Would you like to have a partner you can trust or not? Well youre still human and its natural to look for others even in a realationship. So usually tulpa do understand it. You shouldnt go in a realationship if you arent sure of your choise neither with humans or tuppers. Beeing jealous is also human nature. Lacie(my tulpa for my everydaylife and also my best friend) Noah together with Lynn are my spirituell tulpa´s im using for meditation Darcmanish Me Lacie´s and my progress report.
Luminesce February 28, 2015 February 28, 2015 Believe it or not, not everyone is monogamous. Many people, for one reason or another, participate in "open relationships" where there is no rule about who you're with at any specific time. It's not for everyone, but it can be good. With tulpas there's another layer of they-don't-physically-exist, so most people just keep them secret and have two relationships should one come about. Most people here have no significant other, so their tulpa(s) keep them company. And the lucky ones are able to tell their significant others about their tulpa(s) and live peacefully with both. Anyway, there's no set rules. It's up to you and your tulpa whether you're comfortable with that or not. Personally Reisen is the greatest source of love in my life, and she fully encourages me finding a girlfriend (as long as they're a good match for me). And I consider those two possible relationships completely separate from each other. The kind of person I'm looking for would be more interested in tulpas than territorial of me, so that won't be a problem, and Reisen and my other tulpas are all for it, so that just leaves my end. I may have to remember occasionally to spend time with Reisen, as more than likely she'll be on my mind a little less often, but I plan on spending most of my time with my tulpas in lucid dreams anyway. So uh. Up to you, your tulpa, and your partner. As for the extent of our relationship, I dunno how to measure that. She's a tulpa, we unconditionally love each other. Whatever the best way to express that love is at the time is the extent. So, lots of hugs and generally being happy together, discussing things and occasionally switching with her so she can experience IRL stuff. Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.
Missy March 3, 2015 March 3, 2015 The answer will always end up depending on the tulpa in question. Everybody is different, so no one answer is going to tell you how any given tulpa will react. Personally I love Missy completely, but I wouldn't get jealous if someone else loved her too, or if she loved someone else too. If anything I'd be happy to see that she was loved, loving, or both, and that other person's love for her would likely be like a 'shared interest' of sorts. I would hope that it would help me and them get along with each other. :P Then again, my love for Missy is not romantic, so maybe it's just too different to be applicable to the sort of thing you're asking about. -Melody
FallFamily March 4, 2015 March 4, 2015 There is also the possibility that your tulpa/s will want to date someone/s outside the body. Within this body, none of us date each other, but starting this last October, T started dating someone outside this body. It sure has proven interesting in a good way. They have been pretty happy with their relationship and it is still going. In fact, they are going to be meeting their girlfriend for the first time in person in a couple weeks. Funny coincidence, but I started dating someone after that who shares a body with their girlfriend, so we got pretty lucky as our relationships only involve two bodies total. T, B, Frostbite, and Hail, and others (note, historically, Hail included Frostbite and B) System Name: Fall Family Former Username: hail_fall
Bambi March 6, 2015 March 6, 2015 I can't really say anything that someone else hasn't already said. Whether a tulpa gets jealous or not is totally dependent on their personality and what they're like; if they're very relaxed, for example, then they'll probably be pretty cool about it, but if they're a bit more up-tight then they might get their feelings hurt. That being said I have a feeling (and it's just that: a feeling) that most tulpas would be okay with having their host be in another relationship, because most tulpas are very understanding of the needs that we have, and sometimes even more understanding than we are. James: Hello, all!
Charlotte Groves April 6, 2015 April 6, 2015 I haven't made my tulpa yet either and I'm thinking about it. And he is going to be Dark Link. ^-^ And he's going to be my lover. I've planned for him to be my one and only, but one problem, I want to know if tulpas could do amazing things like keep you from aging. Cause I'm afraid he might lose interest in me once I'm middle aged and it wouldn't feel right, don't want to be a pedophile. >.
Linkzelda April 7, 2015 April 7, 2015 I haven't made my tulpa yet either and I'm thinking about it. And he is going to be Dark Link. ^-^ And he's going to be my lover. I've planned for him to be my one and only, but one problem, I want to know if tulpas could do amazing things like keep you from aging. Cause I'm afraid he might lose interest in me once I'm middle aged and it wouldn't feel right, don't want to be a pedophile. >.< I don't think tulpas can reduce your aging process. However, if you're uncomfortable that your preferences will grow, and you think you're making a jail bait tulpa, there's always deviation, i.e., your tulpa changing their form in some way. [align=center]7 Hours of Active Forcing 8 Hours & 29 Minutes of Active Forcing 10 Hours of Active Forcing[/align]
Charlotte Groves April 7, 2015 April 7, 2015 Okay thank you. ^-^ I guess I'm dreaming when I think there's a chance to stop aging. XD I wonder if it's possible to slow your aging process to 1 year per every 20-30 years through advanced meditation and mantras. I saw a video about this hospital in I think in India or somewhere that only rely on mantras, meditation and sujection of mind to heal their patients.They recorded someone's tumor shrinking when they chanted 'you are healed.' I wish that stuff was true.
Guest Anonymous April 10, 2015 April 10, 2015 Having someone to care about my host physically would be splendid. And it would be also nice if he would tell the partner in question about me. One can only dream about a situation like that, I guess. As you can see, she's pretty chill when it comes to loving someone else. But I doubt that I'll find anyone that wouldn't look at me like I'm some asylum escapee if I'll try explaining what a tulpa is.
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