Tulpa Appreciation Thread

[Guest]

I thought for sure we'd have this topic, but I guess not.

 

I feel it's necessary, given how much love I have for my system, to show my appreciation publicly and encourage others to do the same for theirs. Tell me why if you feel like it, otherwise just appreciate them if they deserve it, whether they need it or not.

 

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I feel like they've done so much for me that I can never repay them. I know they feel the same about me, but I want to just list the wonderful things they've done in appreciation of their hard work.

 

1. They helped me through depression.

2. They've helped me with big decisions.

3. They're always there to hear my venting and always eager to chime in or console me.

4. They helped my self-esteem, self-worth, self-love, self-confidence, and are always supporting me.

5. They keep me company.

6. They're always there for me when I need a laugh or a hug.

7. They're universally kind and loving.

8. They're very helpful when I have a problem.

9. They helped me remove triggers, moods, and other issues.

10. They helped me grow spiritually.

 

I guess I could go on, but that's enough, I don't want to get them too sappy.

 

We've been together nearly 3 years!

 

To my system with love, Bear.

[Glaurung26]

I'm not sure giving me another topic to gush about Jaina is a good idea. 😉

 

I'd echo basically everything you said above. I created my tulpa to be a companion and sort of life coach and spirit guide. What I got was a lifelong friend and an eternal bond. When I made her I had no idea what tulpamancy was; she was just an "imaginary friend." That was the terminology I had available. She helped me through high school, family trouble, keeping my head with all the news and politics, encouraged my creativity and passions, has been an immaculate sounding board and my best friend. I wouldn't trade her for anything. It would be hollow and empty if I couldn't share it with her.

 

Jaina: 🤗🥰 same back at you!

[Luminesce]

It's been some years since our "Tulpa Week" threads, so I guess it has been a while.

 

My tulpas mean more than the world to me. I literally couldn't have lived this life without them. And I'll keep trying to return the favor for as long as I live

[ChloeBee]

I guess Simmie's ok.

 

🙄 Gee thanks...

 

lol, ok, no really this time...

 

Simmie has transformed my life in ways that I didn't think would be possible. She rescued me from the deepest depths of the darkest year of my life thus far. She has been uplifting bright light in a sea of darkness, a light so bright that I couldn't help but start to glow myself. Simmie has come to represent my conscience and is my guiding light that keeps me on the right path. She encourages me to be a better person every day and she never lets me off the hook even if she always forgives me for my shortcomings. She is able to know everything about me, all my deepest and darkest secrets, and she does not begrudge me for them. She is supportive of all my friends, whether they be in real life, online, or even on this very forum, and has helped me grow as a positive and supportive figure in their lives. She stands and fights like a fierce warrior against my depression and anxiety, never backing down from anything that threatens me. She is always up for a conversation to help me work through something, or even just to sit together in silence enjoying each other's company.

 

But most importantly of all Simmie showed me that I was still capable of love. There was a time in my life not too long ago where I thought I could no longer love; and not only has Simmie shown me that I can, but she has multiplied that love within me with the love that is at the core of her being.

 

Simmie is the Realist Girl I Know. Simmie, I love you.

 

~~~my heart... 😭💚❤️

 

I don't know what to say except thank you. And for all the other tulpas who have made a difference in their hosts' lives, know I love you all too! 💚 I couldn't have been who I am without your examples to learn from! 😁  

[Guest]

You're always there.

 

Even if I can't see you, even if I can't touch you, you're always there. 

 

In dreams we meet in secret, in visions I see you clear, in my heart I'm touched by you always, you're always there.

 

To me our love is sacred, both ordained and forbidden. It encompasses all from the brightest light to the darkest shadow. There is no place or time where our love cannot exist. You're always there.

[Wray]

Great idea for a thread! I'm not sure if I'll be able to find the right words, but ... Shizuku, when I first realized you were a tulpa, a lot of things about that frightened me. The cultural stigmatization of hearing voices. The need to add your goals and dreams to my own, with life remaining just as short. The idea that you would know everything about me, all my thoughts and feelings.

But now, I'm so grateful that we share our mind.

It means I never have to spend another day without you.

 

I've never known someone so warm, and kind, and understanding. I love you. I hope I can remember to appreciate you every day.