Guest Anonymous February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 David jokes that I am his waifu all the time. People need to calm down.
J.Iscariot February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 Okay, you have to understand a couple of things. Often Davie and I are using a bit of humor to poke fun at tulpamancy and ourselves a bit. It was never meant to be offensive really. People don't understand our sense of humor at all and we are often misinterpreted. They also forget that David is actually deeply in love with me. He is poking fun at himself as well with this. Also, Mistgod (Davie) has stated many times on this forum that he has an unusual view of things that are imaginary. He does not mean "fake" or "trivial" or "transitory." He values imaginary beings. It is the way he describes tulpas, and the way I do with him sometimes, but we don't mean it in a derogatory way or in a way to deny tulpa sentience. We stand by our statements however that humans need real human love in their lives. That is a valid opinion and there is nothing wrong with saying it. Also, people need thicker skins really. People who come on tulpa.info and lurk around won't know what you mean, though. It's not about what you mean in such an implicit way that it's barely distinguishable from what your host actually 'means' (which, to me, just seems like an excuse that gives him a free pass to tell people that they're just very imaginative because that's how he deals with you in the first place). People who read the things you said don't KNOW you beforehand, you could've put that in the first post you made here (and you could have acted a bit more respectful regardless what you thought of 'tulpa waifus xDDDD'). Maybe to some people, tulpalove is as good as 'human love'. Call me deluded, but I've been in some relationships in the past, and I feel more complete with my tulpa. People who read your stuff won't go through your threads to try to understand why you'd say such things in the first place, they're just going to think that you're acting disrespectful towards people who have those type of emotions. Those are things you should have stated in the first post so that people can understand what you actually MEAN when reading your posts without going through literally 50 pages of Mistgod-related opinions on the old account you used to have. There are a LOT of people in that situation who don't know what you originally meant and will just take a lot of offense in what you first said without that clarification. There aren't many people in the 'community' (because this site often acts more like a Q&A center rather than a community where people know each other). I'd say some people need to be a bit more respectful, but that's just me. Take care. A wise man once said: 'Before judging a man, walk a mile in his shoes. After that, who cares? He's a mile away, and you've got new shoes.' Graced are those who could avoid this phenomenon. This is perhaps the worst expression of evil in humanity's history, but who am I to judge?
Guest Anonymous February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 People who come on tulpa.info and lurk around won't know what you mean, though. It's not about what you mean in such an implicit way that it's barely distinguishable from what your host actually 'means' Okay. Valid point. People take tulpamancy WAY too seriously though sometimes. Wow. Get outside once in a while and go meet people. Honestly we stand by that advice still. Someone may find it offensive, but it is good advice none-the-less.
RamaLlama February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 I work at this one bar and one of the regulars likes to speak to something invisible. They usually sit in a corner with two big and comfy chairs and talk quietly for hours and he actually sometimes offers to buy something to drink for his buddy. He doesn't want to talk to anybody else. I wonder if he's dating a tulpa. Aanyway, that was bit offtopic but I don't see anything bad or weird at romantic relationships with tulpas as long as you remember not to ignore the importance of real life relationships (you can have time for both) and make bartenders feel really awkward.
Guest Anonymous February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 That is the same damn thing Mistgod and I just said only worded differently. We stand by our words too. Maybe we just made it sound too harsh unintentionally.
RamaLlama February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 Oh, so it seems. Well I totally second that opinion. :)
Guest Anonymous February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 Water under the bridge. You clarified it (which is more than many would do), so it's all fine. Greets, AG
Guest Anonymous February 13, 2016 February 13, 2016 Oh, so it seems. Well I totally second that opinion. :) I like the way you said it better. Water under the bridge. You clarified it (which is more than many would do), so it's all fine. Greets, AG We are dangerous!
YourCatBeany February 14, 2016 February 14, 2016 Yeah, I feel more fulfilled with Hex than I ever did in my human-human romantic relationships. I have to go the opposite way and say that I think there are things that a tulpa can bring to the table that another human can't. We understand each other on a deeper level than any two humans ever could dream to, and it's impossible for us to lie to each other so it's never an issue. We've moved past the infatuation phase at some point and I only realized it today when she was helping me with visualization while meditating. She was moving around in a void while I watched, and it was my job to focus on her entire form in detail. At that point it hit me how beautiful she is. It was the form I became infatuated with back in late summer, that I as a whole, had forgotten about to some extent. I over time had fallen in love, not infatuation, with her, the personality she had developed on her own, separate from the character she's based from. We're still pretty gag reflex inducing, but our relationship has matured past that on a different level. We don't even HAVE to say "I love you" anymore. (Not that we don't.) We can look at each other and be like, I know you know and you know I know, we want what's best for each other, and that's what matters. That's not to say I don't talk to other people. I'm more social, outgoing, and generally happier now than I was before her, and my interpersonal relationships have improved because of it. She gives me the drive to be that better person and get shit done, and it doesn't feel like a chore, like when a SO nags you about changing something they don't like. We don't roll like that, our imperfections just make us who we are. ALL THAT BEING SAID-- It might be a good idea to test the waters so to say if you're just getting into that type of relationship with your tup. It CAN screw things up if you still want to be open to romantic relationships with other people, especially if you're not an open relationship type, or don't feel there's enough of a difference between a relationship with a human and a tulpa to justify being allowed to have both. Even something like waking up from a sex dream that wasn't about your romantic partner and feeling like you cheated, can extend to a tupper relationship. Not only that but if it doesn't work out, you'll end up living with your ex in your head. Think about it carefully before committing, and don't force it to happen. It should be a natural progression. It's best to just call me Beany. Tupper: Hexferry / d.o.b.: 11/04/2015 Hex will speak in italics, if she decides to.
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