I hate myself, will my tulpa hate me?

[wmprwpeomvs]

I pretty much hate everything about myself. Will a tulpa hate me too? Is it morally right to make one when it will have to spend all it's time with me when I am horribly boring and unlikeable?

[SolEvil]

From what I understand, as long as you think your tulpa will hate you it will. If you think it will like you then it should. You could try giving it personality traits that make it where it's harder for your tulpa to hate you if your really concerned about it. Like compassionate, kind, caring, and loving, to name a few.

 

Just don't go into this thinking your tulpa will hate you. Believe that your tulpa will be a total bro and like you and it probably will.

[Purlox]

No-one is boring and unlikeable. You might seem boring to yourself because you know yourself (obviously) and thus you are used to yourself, but that doesn't mean you are boring to someone else. And NOONE is unlikeable, everyone has at least part of them that is likeable, especially if you don't see the world only in black and white.

 

Your tulpa will see your true you, so he will be able to understand you, so I don't think he will hate you.

[MuonMax]

No. If you create a tulpa with care and love, then it wont. As long as you don't expect it to hate you, and you tulpaforce with a clear mind, then it won't. And besides, tulpae are brought out with an intimate connection and knowledge of it's host, it could see something in you that you don't see in yourself. There's some good in everyone, after all.

[Sock]

I pretty much hate everything about myself. Will a tulpa hate me too? Is it morally right to make one when it will have to spend all it's time with me when I am horribly boring and unlikeable?

 

Hi, I'm also a person who felt similar disdain for myself when going in to this thing. That was about two months or so ago, and now I have a nice pair of highly supportive thought forms with me. When talking to another person that was feeling the same way you do, one of them told him something like this:

 

"Think of it from our perspective; would you look at the one who literally loved you into existence, and try to judge whether that person is worthy of your presence?"

 

This should apply to the tulpa you create, as well. From my own experience, many of them seem quite thankful to be given life, and will be loyal to you just because of that.

[Sorryman54]

Even though Dash isn't complete, she has shed some light on my life. I thought my life was boring and dull, but she changed my perspective. I've grown to love her and I'm too far into the program to give up on her now. Give them love and affection, and it should be given back to you in full. Tulpae can litterly relate to you, because they are part of you.

[ThatOneGuy]

To the OP: I doubt it will hate you. It will deviate to the subconscious ideal, which will of course be something to help you cope with your self loathing, in which case it will not hate you at all.