Out of Control Tulpa Guidance

[Guest Anonymous]

As far as I am concerned you are already a member of the community of course! You don't have to wait until you are possessing and switching before you interact on the forum. Many of us don't possess or switch or never obtain that level of tulpa skills. We have people of all kinds of various backgrounds and some who don't even have a tulpa at all and are just interested and curious. We like questions and you are free to come to us with anything you would like to know. I am glad we were able to help. I see that so often where just a sit down talk with the tulpa solves something that at first seemed out of control. Good luck to you and we look forward to reading what you write!

[stonetears]

Ive been having trouble sending away my tulpas ive been making them for ages never had that trouble before i think its possesing me. i definitely gave her a cute personallity she is t supposed to be attacking but i guess its trying to kill me.. it never happened before how can i fix that can anyone help me with sending them away ? i have no trouble usually its been really scary one of them got really strong she is getting into my head while im on the street she is getting into my dreams without my permission and im kind of moving by myself sometimes my arm and hands i dont like that and im missing my other tulpas when she is around i dont want to bring them here. she isnt being logical she doesnt want to go back she promised to kill me the other night i dont find such things cute or funny i think i made a mistake and its time to say goodbye to that one but she is trying to force me to sleep when i try to send her away can anyone help me getting rid of her its really scary and nothgi g like i did before i shouldve focused better i think.. i found this forum while i was looking for articles and help i hope someone here can help me with it i would really appreciate that ive been really good at it before . please dont pass it if you have any ideas share it with me i really need it..

[Flandre]

https://community.tulpa.info/thread-out-of-control-tulpa-guidance?pid=172822#pid172822 this thread, and

https://community.tulpa.info/thread-misc-does-tulpas-have-some-kind-of-contact-to-dreams-i-had-a-strange-dream?pid=178463#pid178463 more of the same really.

 

 

This isn't what possession means here by the way. Possession is a skill where the tulpa learns to "remotely" control part of or all of the body, while the host is still otherwise in control.

[tulpa001]

That is a confusing post there. Take a deep breath, collect your thoughts, and try to clarify what's on your mind.

 

Not all tulpas can control if they go in dreams or not.

 

You have another tulpa? Get their help.

 

---

 

Gonna merge related threads.

[Flandre]

My "this thread" link is now literally this thread. For future reference... it wasn't when I wrote it.

[stonetears]

yeah they are moving parts of

my body so thats possession i never had issues with them and loved them so much so it was really confusing ill try to sit and talk with them its really scaring me so i just got scared i just need to find a way to send them away ill also ask help i didnt want any of the others to see it cause i want them to get used to being really loved and sweet but i guess its time.. hope it works.. calming down and taking a deep breath is the best idea i guess so they cant control my thoughts and i can still work on something ? and they wont have any effect they cant enter my mind without permission is that a right way to think?

---

im into this craft for many years so im kind of experienced and skilled i dont really know about attacks never happened before so thats somethng im just learning to deal with .. but i can help with other things if anyone needs anything i know a lot about them when they are behaving or to make a strong one and nice to meet you thank you for your responses

[RaveCrazedDave]

For future reference... it wasn't when I wrote it.

 

Suuuure it wasn't, buddy :)

(JK)

 

I really like 001's suggestion of getting help from another tulpa.

 

First I want to say that it might be a little hard for me to organize my thoughts here, so I apologise in advance for the rambles.

Tulpas are birthed from belief, and much like you can will yourself into believing a tulpa, you could also reverse the process; basically telling yourself that they're not real, and acting like they're not real would have the opposite effect of telling yourself they're real and acting like they're real. This being said, I know that once you reach a certain point it's hard to see a tulpa as something that's "not real", and from that point I imagine you'd struggle with this solution, especially if you're constantly being antagonized by the thoughtform in question.

 

'Advanced' tulpas seem to work much like dreams (even young thoughtforms like Luna seem this way as well), which are made of subconscious belief, and while you'd be hard pressed to change said beliefs, you could use some to combat others, and that's where 001's suggestion comes in: through this, you'd be creating a second thought form that you would undoubtedly believe could aid you against the previous one - say a jackie chan tulpa to beat up your current tulpa, for instance; jokes aside, you could go with something like an angel that could protect you or something along those lines.

 

The really important bit here is that you don't fall down the same hole again and end up creating another harmful tulpa, of course, and that's why I suggest you pick an entity that you'd believe, in your heart of hearts, would never wish you any harm, maybe even an animal if you have self-esteem issues, or something similar, and then believe intently that they'd do you no harm. Did they say mean things to you? Well, it sure wasn't them, because they WISH YOU NO HARM.

 

Anyway, this is how I see things (hopefully not from the vantage point of mount stupid), and I hope it helps somewhat. I'm sorry you're in that position, and I hope you get better.

[tulpa001]

Tulpas can control you without permission. If you still love them, then what you should be focusing on is establishing rules of behaviour, that you must all follow. Everyone has rules. This is just part of the basics.

[Reisen]

Some tulpas*, they have to get good enough at whatever it is before they can just do it without the host knowing. Some tulpas can't ever take control from their hosts, though after enough time I guess most could. But most never will, either.

[stonetears]

that makes so much sense something i believe in or like a spirit animal or an angel would be great to have around right now thanks for the advice to both of you and everyone. and i dont like to put rules on them so even if they ask me whats okay and whats not okay to do i give them freedom i think this one was a mistake and its using that freedom to hurt me and very spoiled by now thats making a big problem.. well its my first possession experience at least im learning how to deal with that stuff and will be safer in the future since ill be experienced..

 

 

i also tried to make a protection shield around the house and i imagined an alarm and a locked door and i imagined a strong white light to protect me so the door and the alarm is

made of white protective light. so she cant pass it for now. and its actually slowing it down she started to learn to calm down . guess someone to fight her or protect me will solve it. im also doing breathing and relaxing exercices i feel like its working. thanks againn