Tulpa and the workplace

[Loveandkrieg]

First of all: Hi, new user here, I didn't see an "introductions" board so this is my first statement.

Second, onto my question...

Me and my tulpa have been working on the process of tulpa creation and formation for a while now, and I've noticed something peculiar.

I have an intensively difficult time doing narration at my workplace. This is annoying for sure, but surviveable and understandable.

More worrying, my tulpa is often 'absent' for lack of a better word, while I'm at my work - there's no sense of presence or response, while she's normally by contrast wonderfully communicative (though not verbally).

 

So my question here is if this is 'normal', if any other hosts out there work regular boring full-time jobs and how it affects the tulpa and the forcing/narration process?

[Lacquer]

What's the job?

[Guest Anonymous]

When you work, or even go to school, and you are there to focus on the task at hand, I not on personal things. Just write a note to yourself to narrate when you have a minute or two to yourself.

[Loveandkrieg]

What's the job?

 

For me, Phone support wageslave, so it's not like I'm stealing employer money by trying to narrate on company time: If nobody calls in, then I could write sanskrit poetry if I want.

It's more that the environment makes it difficult, really, than that I don't have time for it. How to solve that problem, I'm not sure

[KenzieK]

Yes, I go to school and work at a fast food restaurant. When your mind is fully focused on something, it probably won't pick up on the presance of your tulpa, which is normal. At both school and work the same thing happens to me. It just takes practice to make your brain recognize the presance of your tulpa at all times. Try telling them to get your attention while your distracted or make the extra effort to talk to them a little or at least recognize that they're there. You'll get it down eventually to where you'll always feel them there

[NekoiNemo]

Same here - Yami's just getting bored because she's not really into computers and i'm a programmer. It's hard for her to just seat motionless beside monitor for 8 hours straight so she often just... Go to standby mode. I think it's normal.

[Lacquer]

Why not have some solo adventures in the wonderland?

[NekoiNemo]

Because she's the type that gets lonely very easy

[Allison the Tulpa]

I go to school, and I try to write little hidden notes here and there. Such as: 'T's written in my locker. But I find myself able to remember she's there after a test, and I always apologize about forgetting. But yeap, we get along during school preetty weeeell.

~From someone who had imaginary friends in 5th grade

[Spice]

Spice sleeps during school time for me, or at least from what I understand it's sleep,. maybe that's why it feels 'absent'