FurryBlueNaki October 10, 2014 October 10, 2014 Does anyone else feel their purpose for being here is to raise and take care of their tulpa? It finally gives me purpose, and hope. I used to feel like life had no purpose. I was aimless and depressed. But now I feel so free. Chance, an anthro husky, wolf or fox. Birthdate September 20, 2014. Sentient October 1, 2014.
Luminesce October 11, 2014 October 11, 2014 For a short time Reisen was mine, but she was created to teach me that life can be amazing and love is the way to go. If I lived only for her, I would be ignoring what she was trying to tell me. Nevertheless, she did give me a purpose. Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.
Guest amber5885 October 11, 2014 October 11, 2014 That's not your purpose for being. That actually borders dangerously on obsession. You're tulpas are here to help you an to offer company not to be you're 100%. Tell chance you feel this way and see what he says.
Luminesce October 11, 2014 October 11, 2014 I agree it's dangerous to put that much importance in anything, which is probably why Reisen didn't want me to put it in her but in life in general. Something is better than nothing indeed, but everything is better than something. Work your way there if you can. If I may share what she's taught me herself, you don't need a purpose to live. You are alive, with the one in infinity chance there was of that happening, so you might as well enjoy it. There's no reason to feel bad and plenty of reason to feel good, not least of which is that.. good is good. Bad is bad. However doing something in life that gives you fulfillment and a sense of meaning is perfectly fine, it can really boost your overall mood. It's unhealthy to rely so much on your tulpa as it's unhealthy to rely on any one thing as your purpose to live. All-your-eggs-in-one-basket so to speak. To each their own, but I recommend living with your tulpa, rather than for your tulpa. My tulpas and I enjoy life together, for no particular reason but just to live. Fun is fun, so let's do that. (Figuring out the philosophical questions of life is fun, too.) Hi! I'm Lumi, host of Reisen, Tewi, Flandre and Lucilyn. Everyone deserves to love and be loved. It's human nature. My tulpas and I have a Q&A thread, which was the first (and largest) of its kind. Feel free to ask us about tulpamancy stuff there.
Guest amber5885 October 11, 2014 October 11, 2014 I think you hit the nail on the head. Being alive is a miracle in and of itself and while it can be painful, messy an brutal at times it's also beautiful, fun and exciting. Everyone has their own beliefs as far as the meaning of life goes and all are right. I dont think there is a wrong answer so for me the purpose is to find your joy, find one thing everyday that makes you smile. Sometimes you have to get out of your own head to do it buy If you can, of you can get your own mind to shut up for 2 point 2 seconds then life becomes a pretty beautiful place,
ThatFellowWithTheScarf October 11, 2014 October 11, 2014 I always believed its a humans job to choose that purpose: to teach, to perform, to destroy. And too many never do cause they just complain about the things they can't do even though they've never even tried it. And when you see older folks that seem to never be unhappy, they probably picked right.
FurryBlueNaki October 11, 2014 Author October 11, 2014 You're right amber. I don't spend every waking moment thinking of him. When I get to 30 mins of forcing I tend to get a headache. If he isn't directly my purpose, he makes me feel like I have one. But I do get happiness from him. I couldn't really find it anywhere else except for my dog. Maybe I don't really have a purpose, and that would be fine too. I needed to hear what you all said. Thank you. Chance, an anthro husky, wolf or fox. Birthdate September 20, 2014. Sentient October 1, 2014.
FurryBlueNaki October 11, 2014 Author October 11, 2014 I told Chance I felt that way about him, and he said "that's ok. I don't have to be your everything." But honestly I thought before he was a good purpose. That last part of what he said was in response to the feedback I received here. It's good feedback. From another forum: There is a dual-nature to purpose, it is a polarity. There is PURPOSE, which is an archetype and is like the possibility and potential for PURPOSE to exist, and then there is purpose and purposes, which are the forms the archetype takes on. You always have PURPOSE, the confusing part for most people is that you don't only have one form of PURPOSE, it takes on the forms of many purposes. PURPOSE is like an empty vessel waiting to be filled with purposes. Chance, an anthro husky, wolf or fox. Birthdate September 20, 2014. Sentient October 1, 2014.
KHost October 12, 2014 October 12, 2014 K: I completely agree with amber and Reisen's host. Human life is something to be envied. Tulpas should get angry if their host isn't living it to the fullest! And if their host doesn't have any purpose for being here, they should help with finding some. While I was rushing downward to the lowland, Before mine eyes did one present himself, Who seemed from long-continued silence hoarse. When I beheld him in the desert vast, “Have pity on me,” unto him I cried, “Whiche’er thou art, or shade or real man!”
KruegerMeister October 15, 2014 October 15, 2014 [...Why is it something to be envied, again? Other than the "physical body" stuff.]
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